Very well said!
I love your vent, it's the same thing that's always aggrivated me. When you're on the high tax bracket end of things, then you see how unfair it is to work so hard and pay so much taxes while you're surrounded by people who honestly think welfare is a way of life, and not just a temporary form of help for those who fall on a hard time. In all honesty it scares me to think about the future of our country if the rate of people who take from the system continues to grow faster than the rate of people who pay into the system.
I understand your frustration. My DH and I are 14 years older than you and your DH and our income puts us in the highest tax bracket. I really used to get fired up about paying what I felt like was "more than my fair share" of taxes. Even up until the recent financial crisis....I'd still get upset and feel like, "where's my government handout?"
However, with the last crisis we had millions of Americans who were following the rules and got caught up in the net. Sure, we have people who are always going to milk the system. But the older I get, the more I look at the small percentage of "serial offenders" and think..."what do they really have?" Most if not all are living below the poverty line. They're always living life on the edge.
And I wouldn't want to be dependent on these programs, as cuts are coming....they have to come. The Entitlement programs (SS, medicare, medicaid and welfare/unemployment/food stamps) and the military make up 75% of our Federal budget. To even come close to balancing our budget and remotely think about beginning to pay down the Federal debt, taxes will have to go up (on everyone) and these programs will have to be cut. We aren't going to grow our way out of this one.
We'll just continue to work hard, save and invest. And as always, we will not factor Social Security into our retirement plans. I do believe we'll receive something, but anything we do get we'll consider a bonus. And that bonus will likely go towards the much higher Medicare premiums that we'll face in the future.