We'll miss ya, Cathy

Dan Murphy

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Just wanted to take a moment to let you know we will miss you. I will too. As I have said to you at times in the past, Cathy, and in email last night, we both have had our differences, and words, (LOL :eek: ) over the years, but also many common likes and enjoyments over the years.

I first 'met' you, back in early '99, I am sure, on the old, combined Resorts and Restaurants Board, either being welcomed to the DIS by you, or maybe answering a question about the Poly, our resort for our upcoming family trip then. I know I asked a lot. ;) And got many answers and ideas from you and so many others as I learned Disney and WDW.

When the DU idea started, I switched my ressie over to them and was in the first 'pilot 25, soft opening' group of ressies. And from what you told me, the first DU client to actaully take a WDW trip through DU. I also recall when we arrived at the Poly for our magical trip, there was a BEAUTIFUL floral and goodie arrangement on the table, from you. You said this was for being the first and I recall you saying not to talk about that on the boards in my trip reports, LOL, as that was not standard DU treatment, but from you for our being the first client. (And, I do think this is the first time I have mentioned that publically, I think I can now :)) And my family and I did get to meet you and the kids at Disney Quest during that trip, at a DIS meet, my first one. That was cool!

Some time after our return home, I got a moderator hat somewhere along the line. Over the slightly more that two years I wore that hat, we accomplished much, but as said above, and known by most here, we did have our differences of opinion, our words, and so on. I think for mostly one reason, our love for the DIS, but sometimes just looking at it through a different window at times. We often, more often than not, did not have words, but a respectful relationship, trying to improve the 'product', the DIS. As some point, I found it in my best interests, personally, to step out and take off the moderator hat, and just wear the 'plain old' DIS'er hat, and have liked it since. From that time on too, we did have our 'words', but seemed to always, always maintain our respect of each other, certainly behind the scenes in emails, even if at times we both were in a 'huff', with arms folded, on the boards. :)

And now this.:( Cathy, I for one, and I know among many, will miss ya. I do hope our paths cross again, whether at WDW, DL, or anywhere. My very best to you, Jim, Meg (what a nice young lady she has grown into) and Patrick. (for some reason, he can still make me tear up when he does his signng. And a neat guy and young man he is too. :o) Take care, and remember, Cathy, 'it all started with a mouse' and the Mouse is still there.

Dan :sunny:

PS: And though I never really had many dealings nor interaction with Michelle, her being a cruise board moderator and I not a 'cruiser', I have had the pleasure of meeting Michelle several times, WDW and DL both. And I will likewise miss you, Michelle. My best to you too.
 
Very nice Dan. Cathy is one fine lady and will be missed greatly here on the Dis by me and I'm sure many more. We had a few"words" too, but always made up!;) Cathy was truly an asset to these boards and I just can't understand what happened?:confused:
 
I haven't been around much lately, so I am completely in the dark! Sorry to hear there was another banning.
 

Only the BEST to you, CC!

These days, I am only here occasionally and one of the reasons I do come is because of you, Cathy:D Remember when we first met... at the very first DIS meet EVER?:smooth: Through all of the years we played together in cyberspace, and - even after I went my own way into the world of webmastery - you have stayed a person I enjoy and admire.

Things "happen" and Life changes... I hope for you there are many silver linings in this transition. Where ever you go from here, I will hold the happy thought that we will cross each other's path again.
{{{CathyCanada}}}
Ahnalira
 
Dan ~ very well said!

DH & I had the pleasure of meeting her one the Magic in 2001. She is really a great person and very knowledgable about Disney! I will miss all her positive comments and up beat posts! Always there to lend a supportive "shoulder" through her posts!
 
Simply put, there are people with whom we can disagree but there is still mutual respect. There are also the people with whom you can respectfully disagree, but from whom you get no respect in return.

I put Cathy in the first group.

Sadly there are too many falling into the second these days. And pooping in your own sandbox is probably not a good idea.
 
Cathy, you are a true class act.

You have always been helpful whether it was with DU or DISCON.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Karen
 
CC, I'm in total shock and speechless. Remember when one door closes, another door opens wide. Best of luck to you.
 
That was so beautiful Dan. You have such a way with words.

CC ~ I'll miss you very much too. Sending prayers, hugs & PD your way.

Rose
 
Originally posted by CyranoJones
Simply put, there are people with whom we can disagree but there is still mutual respect. There are also the people with whom you can respectfully disagree, but from whom you get no respect in return.

I put Cathy in the first group.

Sadly there are too many falling into the second these days. And pooping in your own sandbox is probably not a good idea.

Very well said, CJ.
 
What the heck is going on around here? Nevermind, I don't think I really want to know.

I'm sorry this has happened Cathy, you will be missed in a big way for many people here. You have been the voice of reason for so long that I wonder what will happen to the DIS now? :(
 
Also, don't forget about Webmaster Michelle. She as very helpful when I was planning for our February '03 cruise.
 
Very well said, Dan. I don't post that much but visit and read the boards daily. I will miss CC on the boards.
 
I am shocked, apalled and very, very, very ticked off at the moment. Words are completely failing me.

To say that Cathy will be missed is a GROSS understatement. Cathy is truly one of the "founding parents" of these boards. I don't know the "crime" that was committed. But I cannot for the life of me imagine it was enough to be banned.

This incident is making me think about whether I want to be a member of this community anymore.

:( :( :(
 
Cathy,
I hope you read this thread somehow but I just wanted to say that I too will miss your posts. Since you were such a frequent poster, until recently, I read many, many posts by you and felt like I got to know you although we didn't really communicate directly. (I think we exchanged pm's one time, lol) Please take care.
Keli
 
My best to CC and her family at this trying time. I ditto the remarks that have been posted by others in this thread.:( You will be missed CC and were a shining spot in this community.

As far as the decision to ban 2 moderaters :rolleyes: . I don't care what the circumstances were but geesh there are some others around here that could use a dose of this reality.

Thanks for your wonderful and diplomatic words Dan. Diplomacy fails me at the moment.
 
Cathy and Michelle are gone? Cathy was the very first person that talked to me when I found this place. I don't understand how or why this could happen. And I really can't think of anything they could do to warrant it.
I thought this place could recover from the stuff that's been going on, and now this?! I'm not sure it will after all.
 
A sad, sad day around here. I spoke with CC this morning and she is most concerned about her cousins. No new news yet. Otherwise she's fine. A great friend to many of us.

ps - Great post Dan!
 
What happened?:confused: :confused:

Cathy, you will definitely be missed. Whatever happened to cause this, I don't know and don't want to know, but the DIS won't be the same without you. You are definitely a class act. Take care. :D
 


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