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Has anyone ever dealt with a weighted ( or is it weighed? I googled it and it was referred to both ways. ) grading system for Elementary aged students? I've heard of it in High Schools but never elementary. I went to a very small hs and we didn't even have that.
Here's the situation. Sorry if it's long.
My dd is in the 4th grade and in an Academically/Intellectually Gifted classroom for Reading and Math and it is 4th and 5th grade AIG students combined. Those students are taught with more rigor than normal 4th &5th grades. Today was the Honor Roll reception. Only 3 AIG students made A Honor Roll. My child made AB Honor Roll. Afterwards, another parent approached me and said that some parents districtwide were forming a group to try and have the AIG students grades weighed like HS honor students would be. I told her I would consider going to a meeting and left it at that.
Now I'm wondering, what would weighing the grades gain my student? My gut reaction is that this is more about the parents than the students. I think the parents might feel the need to prove that their child is "smarter" than the rest of the kids. If their AIG kid is only on AB honor roll....or not on the honor roll at all...then the rest of the school wouldn't know that their child is "smarter".....KWIM?
So can anyone tell me a reason why I'm wrong? Is there an actual purpose to weighing the grades? If it's going to actually help my child in some way, I'll go to a meeting and at least hear them out. I certainly am not interested in making my AB student stand out more. Unless there something that I'm not getting, the whole thing puts a bad taste in my mouth. Anyone have any experience with this?
Here's the situation. Sorry if it's long.
My dd is in the 4th grade and in an Academically/Intellectually Gifted classroom for Reading and Math and it is 4th and 5th grade AIG students combined. Those students are taught with more rigor than normal 4th &5th grades. Today was the Honor Roll reception. Only 3 AIG students made A Honor Roll. My child made AB Honor Roll. Afterwards, another parent approached me and said that some parents districtwide were forming a group to try and have the AIG students grades weighed like HS honor students would be. I told her I would consider going to a meeting and left it at that.
Now I'm wondering, what would weighing the grades gain my student? My gut reaction is that this is more about the parents than the students. I think the parents might feel the need to prove that their child is "smarter" than the rest of the kids. If their AIG kid is only on AB honor roll....or not on the honor roll at all...then the rest of the school wouldn't know that their child is "smarter".....KWIM?
So can anyone tell me a reason why I'm wrong? Is there an actual purpose to weighing the grades? If it's going to actually help my child in some way, I'll go to a meeting and at least hear them out. I certainly am not interested in making my AB student stand out more. Unless there something that I'm not getting, the whole thing puts a bad taste in my mouth. Anyone have any experience with this?
Not something I would want to foster in children of that age. At this age, they should be congratulated for doing THEIR best, not being judged against others. JMHO
I almost didn't ask because I didn't want people to think that I agreed with this idea.....not that there's ever any wild assumptions on the Dis
To answer....she's already "that Mom".....hence dh guessing who it was. However, I'm sorry to say that I know that she's not alone in this. They tried to cut funding for AIG in our system last year and a whole lost of parents got their panties bunched in a big way. The system has really bent over backward to try and involve parents in future decisions hoping to avoid a repeat of last year....in the meantime they've managed to enable an outspoken minority to think they can write policy. While I certainly don't want to ally myself with these people, I don't want to completely write them off in case they ever really have a valid point