For those of you who have lost a lot, do you have issues with skinny people who are used to you being fat? Like their self esteem is damaged because you aren't their "Fat Friend" anymore?
There is a lady at work who keeps telling me that I've lost enough, she says "You don't want to get too skinny". I'm not even half way to goal yet.
But this lady isn't the real issue, I can CHOOSE not to assiciate with her.
MY MOTHER is a bigger issue. My mom has always been thin. In her 20s she was a size 6, in her 40's an 8, 50's a 10, 60's a 12 an now in her 70's she's crept to a 14. She's always been one who can eat whatever she wants, but now meds and natural body changes are effecting her weight. BUT she always had ME the FAT DAUGHTER. Size 24. In family pictures, I was the fat one. KWIM?
So tonight we went to JC Penny because 53 lbs later, I look ridiculous in my size 24 jeans. I went to the PLUS dept and picked out size 16 jeans. I brought them in the dressing room with me. When I came out with them in my hand she said
"Are you gonna get them?"
I say no.
"Oh you need me to get you an 18?" She asks.
No...I need to go look in the Misses Dept because I need a 14! 








You would have thought I had just killed her puppy. Her face dropped
"But...I'm a size 14." She said in a defeated voice.
I didn't let her rain on my parade. I went and picked out some size 14 jeans. I cried tears of joy in that dressing room as I zipped them up.!
Last time I was a 14 was in 10th grade!