supercarrie
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My fiance and I are planning a wedding tentatively scheduled for August, 2008. He lives in London and I am here in CA for the time being. (I will be moving over in September to join him permanently in London.) We are having a slight issue with the location at the moment.
We are planning on having our wedding in CA, mainly because the exchange rate will allow for a much nicer celebration over here! His family and closest friends are already planning on attending, so that isn't the issue at all. We are giving them over a year's notice and have offered to help with accomodation, etc if needed. We aren't "expecting" anyone to come, and are trying to be flexible in all ways about helping them pay for their travel if they need it.
The biggest issue about the location actually has been from my own best friend. The wedding venue that is our number one option right now is in San Diego - about 1.5 hours away from our homes in Orange County. (She lives about 5 minutes away from me.) She has complained that 1.5 hours is too far to drive for the wedding. I wonder if part of it is jealousy (a long story, but she has told me several times recently that I am "beating" her to the aisle and "stealing" her dream to live in London.
She hasn't been the most supportive since the planning began.)
Anyways, I digress. I was wondering what your opinion is - would you drive 1.5 hours to attend a wedding? How far is "too far" for you to comfortably go? We are also planning on running transport to/from the San Diego train station so people could take the train rather than drive, if there is enough interest. The wedding venue is better than anything we have found in OC so far, both with the location and the price. I just don't want to upset all of our OC-based guests by having somewhere that is too far away!
We are planning on having our wedding in CA, mainly because the exchange rate will allow for a much nicer celebration over here! His family and closest friends are already planning on attending, so that isn't the issue at all. We are giving them over a year's notice and have offered to help with accomodation, etc if needed. We aren't "expecting" anyone to come, and are trying to be flexible in all ways about helping them pay for their travel if they need it.
The biggest issue about the location actually has been from my own best friend. The wedding venue that is our number one option right now is in San Diego - about 1.5 hours away from our homes in Orange County. (She lives about 5 minutes away from me.) She has complained that 1.5 hours is too far to drive for the wedding. I wonder if part of it is jealousy (a long story, but she has told me several times recently that I am "beating" her to the aisle and "stealing" her dream to live in London.

Anyways, I digress. I was wondering what your opinion is - would you drive 1.5 hours to attend a wedding? How far is "too far" for you to comfortably go? We are also planning on running transport to/from the San Diego train station so people could take the train rather than drive, if there is enough interest. The wedding venue is better than anything we have found in OC so far, both with the location and the price. I just don't want to upset all of our OC-based guests by having somewhere that is too far away!