We lost the baby...

[4greatboys]

Jenn Im so, so sorry about your loss. I have been there before and I know how much it hurts. I'll keep your family in my prayers.

 

[Val]

I am so sorry. I lost 2 between my first and second DD- both at about 16 weeks. 13 years later I can acknowledge that they were not meant to be, but boy was it hard. My youngest 2, ages 6 and 7, call those babies our angel babies. We have special angel ornaments on our Christmas tree to remember them by. My youngest DD believes that our angel babies watch over us and take care of us. She tells me that they weren't meant to be "earth" babies, but are our guardian angels. Out of the mouths of babes!

Remember to grieve. This WAS a child. Don't feel bad about grieving- you have every right to feel a tremendous loss. Time doesn't really heal, it just numbs you a little and helps you put things in perspective. Go to Disney, enjoy your 4 year old and your DH's company. In a way, life goes on, but differently.

We will keep you in our family prayers. God bless you. I am sure there is a special angel in heaven looking out for you- and I am sure you are well protected.

 

[suzannen]

I am so, so sorry for your loss. Words can never take away such intense pain, but just know that your family is in the hearts and prayers of so many here on this board. And, that you have others here on this board who have also experienced it to help you through such a difficult time. I never miscarried, but both of my sisters did and I experienced infertility problems. Some folks just don't quite get or understand the emotional highs and unbelievable lows that these life-experiences cause.

 

[tmli]

I am also very sorry for your loss. We too have experienced a miscarriage.

I also suggest a special memento. For me it was a small baby blanket embroidered with the name "Baby Imlau" on it as well as the month and year. Even though a number of years have passed I still pull it out every once and awhile and remember.

Please just do what you need...talk if you need don't if you don't.

Best Wishes.

 

[cati]

I am so sorry Jenn. I know how bad this hurts from personal experience (If you would like to pm me feel free to do so) I dont think you ever forget, but I can honestly say that time does seem to make it easier.

Try and go to WDW, it may be just the "out" you need right now. Your DD may need this time just for family.

May God bless you and give you the peace to get through this rough time. ((((HUGS)))) to you.

 

[skuttle]

I'm so very sorry. {hugs}

 

[Otto's Doll]

Ah, Jenn.. nothing I can say is going to make things better. Just remember that no matter what anyone says, take your time grieving, and doing the things that make you feel better. It sounds like doing something special to memorialize this precious one would be a great idea. Name the baby, talk about the baby, and take the time to take care of yourself.
I was thinking of you all week, and will continue to lift you and your family in prayer...

 

[adamak]

I'm so sorry. We'll never get used to bad news like that. But you know what, try to go to WDW. You'll need that little magic, esp for your little girl.

Hugs for you.

 

[Disneyland_emily]

Also sending my condolences at this time- I also have miscarried several times and its one of the worst things you ever have to go through-

Grief takes time- May you be forever watched over by this special angel.


-em

 

[mtemm]

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

[Boots]

I have missed your early post. I am so very very sorry for your loss. Prayers and HUGS for you and your family.

 

[Nutsy]

that is so sad Hope you can put it out of your mind for a bit, so you can enjoy WDW.........might be just the medicine you need.

 

[tiggerlover]

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}, Jenn. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

 

[wdwnutze]

Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

 

[Big V]

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

 

[goofy4tink]

Adding my prayers to the others. I've walked in your shoes and it isn't an easy walk. But, time does help. Go to WDW and buy a special angel ornament for the Christmas tree (or whatever). Don't try to forget your special angel baby. Hang in there, it does get a bit easier. Hug your dd a lot. And don't forget hugs for your dh. Sometimes we moms forget the dad's are having a hard time too.

 

[Pop Daddy]

hey

 

[JetMom]

All my Love and Prayers to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[browneyes]

I'm sorry.

 

[Baboo]

I am so sorry to hear this Jenn! {{{HUGS}}} for you and prayers for your family.