Patricia721
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You're very lucky! Congratulations and enjoy buying all those wonderful
dresses!

gopherit said:CONGRATS!
We too are in the 2boys/one gal club! We went into our 3rd pg TOTALLY expecting another boy... hadn't been a girl in my DH's family in over 50 years. I had the song "My 3 Sons" buzzing in my brain for months! THen DS (4 at the time) sashays up and makes a comment about "Baby Car-oh-line".
WHO?!?
He explains he was referring to the baby -- his sister - not yet born. Oh honey, I reminded him, we don't know what it will be yet, and the chances are VERY good it will be a boy! (And VERY slim for a girl!)
Nonsense, sez my eldest manchild. It will be a girl, and he will call her Caroline! (His logic -- he already HAS a little brother. He's due a sister. His words, not mine!)
I praise him for his deep thinkin', and agreed Caroline is a beautiful name, but added thoughtfully that, hey, would it be ok if Mom and Dad perhaps picked a name? "Well," he says, pausing for effect I swear, "You can NAME her whatever you want... but I'm not gonna CALL her that. She's Caroline.
So then we went to the ultrasound and the technician showed us the baby -- I said, please, tell my son gently -- he thinks it's a SISTER. She said, "Well, I'm about 95% certain he's right." I couldn't believe it -- wouldn't believe it! People thought I was nuts, but I actually had to get USED to the idea! What on earth did I know about girls? I always thought if God knew what he was doing, he would just give me boys.... I might not be able to handle a girl! All those frills and bows and boys and clothes and aye yi yi....I thought, God, are you up there laughing at me now OR WHAT?!? Even up to the last week of my pregnancy, the doctors would say, Now we're 99.9% sure it's a girl... and I would say, "Well, fine, so I'll buy one dress... but I'm not cutting the tags until you cut the cord!"
Caroline Blair was born 5 yrs ago (yes, we kept the name!), and let me tell you, I have bought LOTS more dresses since then (and SHOES... she is like a mini Imelda Marcos, I swear....). God is still laughing hard, I think! She sure keeps us on our toes... She's part tomboy, part princess. She's Daddy's girl, and Mommy's girlfriend. She's little sister, and little Momma, tending to her brothers (or "bothers" as she calls them sometimes!) And none of us could EVER imagine a world without her.
Is she harder to raise than the boys? Well, no... just different, thus far. Every child is so unique, regardless of gender! But ask me again in about 10 years. As the saying goes... when you have a son, you have one boy to worry about. When you have a daughter, you have ALL THE BOYS to worry about!![]()
CONGRATS AND BEST WISHES FOR AN EASY FINISH TO YOUR PREGNANCY!
lllovell said:That is a wonderful story! Thanks for sharing. I am still trying to get used to the idea, but it was a lot of fun looking at the little girl stuff as we were strolling around the world this past weekend. Especially when we came out of The Little Mermaid and there are all of the princess dress up clothes right there. Hubby just said "oh boy" and rubbed his face. I laughed and said I can't wait. If she loves it, then we will make sure she gets to do and see all the princess things she wants. Besides, its great torture for the boysActually, I would really enjoy doing things with just she and I - but I hope the boys want to do some of it with us all as well
The dynamics of older brothers and a sister with a 4 year gap will be fun, frustrating and many places in between I am sure...I can't wait!!!