Okay, I have to throw in some more of my 2 cents because this thread just won't die.
From reading this whole thing, I have come to a couple conclusions.
Heely's REALLY annoy people. Especially at WDW. This is what I believe is causing the debate. I KNOW the posters said their kids would not wear them if it was policy. I KNOW they said they would follow the rules. I KNOW you have every right to buy the shoes for your kids and you are NOT some whacko parent if your kids have them.
It is IRRELEVANT whether or not they are skates/are not skates. They ANNOY people. And I think what is getting the tempers of some of the posters raised about this is that some (not all) posters whose kids have Heelys said they wanted an "Official NO HEELYS response from Disney itself."
This burns my butt personally because I tend to be of the persuasion that if things are going to annoy people around me, I don't do it. Not because it is an "official rule" but because I have empathy for those around me.
I leave an attraction with my screaming child, turn off my cell phone ringer, wear deoderant, steer my stroller carefully, etc. NOT because Disney TOLD me to. But because it is COURTEOUS to those around me.
I think a few, if not most, of those who posted that Heely's at WDW were upsetting to them because they worried about safety of themselves and others started getting all riled up because they thought (as I did) that once 20 people said that Heely's really cause a problem at Disney the posters would say "Oh, jeez, if it bothers everyone so much, we'll just leave them home" or "yeah, in a crowd like that, they probably wouldn't be that safe"
But no, the Heely's were coming unless Disney OFFICIALLY declared them off limits. And even when they did, it was not believed.
I smoke. I would NEVER smoke anywhere but the designated areas, even if there weren't signs. And even here, at our local fair, we find a corner out of the way and smoke there. Why?? Because wandering in a crowd smoking is a health and safety issue to those around us. So in order to respect the space and sanity of the other people trying to enjoy their day, we don't smoke walking around, although it is allowed at the fair. I would never forgive myself if I burned someone and ruined an otherwise good day. So my kids would not wear Heely's to WDW, rule or not, because if they lost their footing and took out some poor bystander and even caused them a scrape, I would feel terrible.
I think the lack of empathy for others is what got everyone's panties in a bunch. I know you cannot please everyone.....but this is obviously a BIG deal to a lot of people. So maybe this is one way to make Disney a lot more pleasant for your fellow guests.
And in case my personal opinion on Heely's matters to anyone, I have seen 1 kid, who was very responsibly "heely-ing" at Magic Kingdom. I am neutral about the shoes in general. They actually look like fun, but my kids have a tendency to make bad choices, so we will not be buying Heely's.