Anyway I think each family has to do what’s right for them. Some people will not be happy until there’s a vaccine, some people shouldn’t go because of compromised health and some will just be nervous and anxious the whole time. Others are fine with the risk and are confident in Disney’s ability to follow health guidelines and being accountable for their own family. Everyone needs to use the information available to make the best decision for their family and not judge others because they have a differing view of when it’s okay to go ( OP I am in no way saying you were judging anyone it was very nice of you to share your experience and I think you had very valid points!)
I truly love this post so much! I admit I’ve never been a germophobe (until now!) and maybe I just felt ill prepared for the trip or maybe an unfamiliar mindset.) We did come prepared (even brought an extra suitcase with spray, wipes, gel — and even some masks and a thermometer in case we became ill from prior exposure while we were there).
We also didnt touch anything that was unnecessary. Funny aside, I had a wipe in my hand when we boarded RnRC and some how didn’t tuck into my bag so was kind of holding it in my hand. After the ride DH said “something wet hit me in the face!” And I looked down and saw I no longer was holding the wipe! Oops!
This is how we always travel regardless of the location. We have trip scheduled the same week. I am not confident that it will be a go but only because of Disney's side. If they are open and don't require face masks we would go. We have to wear them in our state now and I have the same reaction as you. No one puts one on and then leaves it alone which defeats the whole purpose.

) a strict social distancing regime that would enable guests to enjoy their time on property while staying safe and adhering to hygienic and distancing protocols that were developed in concert with medical professionals. Nobody is saying that a hundred thousand people are going to storm the castle on the first day they are open