OMG! I can't believe I have missed this thread. I am so Commando it totally irritates my travel partners. In 1999 I took my SIL with me. She was walking too slow and crabbing about how fast we were taking it. That made her really crabby. I stopped, midstride, turned around and said "This is the happiest place in the world Dammit, get happy and move those feet." She said I was a drill sargeant, but she got her move on.
DH and I now know our plans, so I don't have to plan as much anymore. If someone else is going with us, I will make out flash cards with the time to leave our resort room, mode of transportation, park opening activities, what we will experience, in which order, and estimated time of arrival at each ride. I instruct them to study (ie. memorize) the flash cards and be prepared.
Things have changed since FP+. If staying on site, it makes it really easy, and my cards have the FP+ times. I go crazy staying off site, though. When we were there in October, off site did not have FP+. I tried to get everyone out the door even earlier. I saw rebellion after only a couple days.
Hope to join your club.