Make up cards with your name and a contact such as room or home address and phone. Put on the card what conditions each person has, any things that your autistic kid really loves, anything that would cause meltdowns, a general list of diet restrictions followed by specifics.
"He is on the Spectrum Diet" is not helpful and will get blank stares.
"He cannot have gluten, cassein, and dairy." instantly tells the hostess, server, manager, and chefs exactly what the restrictions are.
Today I just remembered that mom is sensitive to MSG. It is easier to hand a CM the card then they can read it and if necessary hand the card to the chef or server. All the information is clearly there. Also it is more discrete to hand a card to let someone know that a person in your group is sensitive to something or has a hidden disability.
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You can contact
Brenda.Bennett@disney.com for diet information.
This thread is about corn and dairy allergies.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1352768
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1424319
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=806868
Very long thread but in general the same thing holds true where a person is GF, celiac, diabetic, religious diet, low salt, or egg free for example. It also is good advice for vegans, vegetarians and parents of picky eaters. I have learned a lot from that thread.
http://www.passporterboards.com/for...-e-worksheet-special-diets-meals-planner.html
Passporter cost money but is a good site for planning and has that database for those who plan their whole trip.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1360636&referrerid=&highlight=gluten
http://www.kidswithfoodallergies.org/community.html
good place to talk with others who have kids on special diets.
The biggest problem for people with food allergies is the bleeping labels. Maltodextrin can come from corn or wheat. Modified food starch can come from wheat or corn. Vegetable oil can be from soy or canola for example. Natural flavours can be from wheat, soy, corn or anything under the sun.
Counter service requires the person in charge to talk to managers and get things across very clearly. I had at a local family restaurant the chef rip off the bread on a sandwich and reserve it. NO BREAD means do not put my meal on a counter that touched bread and definitely not a burger with bits of bread in the cheese. Sit down restaurants tend to have better trained staff and are better with dealing with dietary restrictions.
My last planned trip was to Escondido and I read every menu I could and studied the park info. I contacted the park to make sure about menus at the Wild Animal Park. For my quick trip to Long Beach I went online for a few minutes for info then in the middle of the trip checked stuff out. Planning is most important. For a kid take snacks. There are a lot of gluten, soy and dairy free snacks. I cope by knowing what I cannot eat, what I can eat, studying for any trip and talking with the staff.