Monica:
I'm so sorry for Will & Mickey. Please offer them my condolences. And for you

Being a friend is the best thing that they need right now.
For me it's also a sad night. My Aunt Lue passed away this morning. She had be on declined for the last week, so it was known this was coming, but nonetheless sad. My cousin, Laura is who I'm most concerned about tonight. Her father, my father's brother passed about 15 years ago, so this makes her alone now. She has a brother but they don't get along at all. Laura is the Grandmother to the twins, one of which passed last summer, you may remember. If you can spare an extra prayer for my cousin and her grief that would be great.
Deb, stay strong

and I agree with the advice you've received, tell those that are smoking around you that it isn't cool and it isn't helping. I think it's ok to voice your thoughts in this type of situtation. Good Luck
Paul and I had a nice couple days away. Always good to reconnect
Now it's time to get ready for our Xmas/NYE travels to WDW and on the Magic.
talk with ya later thieves