Waking Tinkerbell getting out of hand?

[Epcot82Guy]

I hope that they go back to random selections for all of these things. I also think it shouldn't be limited necessarily to little girls and children at all. I think the CM should select any person they think would be the most excited.

I also wish more of these would pop up around the MK. I think several attractions and shops could have their own moments throughout the day. Granted, the more of these there are the more "watered down" it gets, but I think a few more could be a great addition.

 

[PatsGirl]

Put me on the crazy list too I would certainly expect a teenager or adult to give up their "space" to a younger child, whether that is waking up tink, a seat on the bus, whatever. I know my teenage son has had to make many accomodations for his younger sister -- he had his chance and now it is hers. There are also concessions that work the other way as well. I know it is hard for her to have an earlier bedtime, not allowed to leave the yard, etc., but with age comes responsibility and reward. As for pouting and having a meltdown it seems, I would have removed her like the child she was acting like and ... well, we don't need to go there

Anyways, I had hoped my daughter might have a chance to wake up Tink but I would rather not begin my magical day with any type of negativity so I think we'll forego this one. I, for one, have no tolerance or patience with rude behavior, especially when it comes from teens/adults.

 

[bicker]

he had his chance and now it is hers.

I agree that, within certain parameters (like when two children arrive at a limited activity such as "waking Tink" within just a few seconds of each other), folks who have already had a chance to do something should step back and allow others who have never had a chance an opportunity to do it. However, that's not age-related.

As I mentioned earlier, I think the example we're discussing is a little extreme, but the principle of first-come/first-served should prevail regardless, otherwise we end up with more of the kind of deterious anarchy that's been discussed repeatedly in threads here on the The DIS for at least the past six years. I think the alternative example provided earlier, of children respectfully acknowledging that they need to arrive early and stay in one place for a while in order to have a good view of the fireworks, only to have some inconsiderate parent shove their own younger children in front, is a better example of the need for everyone to adhere to this principle.

Anyways, I had hoped my daughter might have a chance to wake up Tink but I would rather not begin my magical day with any type of negativity so I think we'll forego this one. I, for one, have no tolerance or patience with rude behavior, especially when it comes from teens/adults.

This is really the crux of the issue: Avoiding the negativity. And it is a shame when we have to choose a lesser negativity (abstaining from an attraction) to avoid a greater negativity (inconsiderate guests). I don't want to sound like a yogi here, but shouldn't we all seek ways to eliminate negativity, rather than resigning ourselves to trading off one for another? Parents and guardians internalizing the principle and ramifications of first-come/first-served on behalf of their children is as much a part of that as anything. With regard to interacting with others in public, it is our responsibility to be our charges' conscience as they're developing their own.

 

[DisneyMomx7]

I still think a teenage girl should not be pouting and should give up a spot for waking up tinkerbelle to a small child. The teenagers don't have to be disappointed that they won't make the height restrictions for certain rides and have Disney quest, etc. I think that somethings should be left to small children.

 

[momof2inPA]

Where is Tinkerbell's Treasure, right or left side and how far down? I would like to take my kids to see Tinkerbell awakened by any child.

 

[LindsayDunn228]

Maybe that teenager was *special* and has a mentality of a younger child. That could explain the fit she was having.

Not necessarily though. There are a lot of teenagers that are still bratty and will pitch a fit if they don't get their way.

 

[Laurajean1014]

I disagree with OP. Disney is for everyone.

 

[Disneyglobegirl]

Where is Tinkerbell's Treasure, right or left side and how far down? I would like to take my kids to see Tinkerbell awakened by any child.

When you pass through the castle it is to the left. It is really cute to watch - also you can ask to see Tink through the keyhole on the chest of drawers in the store after she is awake - very cute!

 

[Laurajean1014]

What is the big deal anyway?

Children don't make a BIG deal out of things unless the parents do or they hear it from the parents. If the parents are relaxed and casual about it, then the children will be. If you hype a kid up (young or older), then they are expecting to be part of the grand event. Who is in control here?

This all sounds like a waste of time.................. they could all be riding Buzz Lightyear instead!

 

[bicker]

Besides, children don't make a BIG deal out of things unless they hear it from the parents. If the parents are relaxed and casual about it, they the children will be.

That's a great point, Laurajean!

 

[Laugh O. Grams]

This is really the crux of the issue: Avoiding the negativity. And it is a shame when we have to choose a lesser negativity (abstaining from an attraction) to avoid a greater negativity (inconsiderate guests). I don't want to sound like a yogi here, but shouldn't we all seek ways to eliminate negativity, rather than resigning ourselves to trading off one for another?

Agreed...but the unfortunate reality is that avoidance is the easiest, and sometimes, best way to have an enjoyable experience. I would like to put up as an example a situation unrelated to WDW. We used to live in South Florida and my wife and I had season tickets to the Miami Dolphins games. The overwhelmingly brutal and horrible behavior (bloody fights, drunk jerks, etc.) by far too many fans from both sides, both our beloved Fins, and the visiting team du jour, made going to the games unbearable and we gave up our incredible seats. I was really sad to give them up, but the toll my brain and blood pressure was taking was not worth the 40 yard line seats, and since then, I have never looked back.

 

[Disneyglobegirl]

I disagree with OP. Disney is for everyone.

I never said that disney isn't for everyone - it is just that seeing the fit wasn't very disney like - people shouldn't go EXPECTING to do something just because they read about it - if it happens great if not it shouldn't cause a scene. I have read many times on here that the CM's at Tink's Treasure only ask children to Wake Tink - I have also read that adults have asked and been told no that it preferred that a child do it.

 

[Laurajean1014]

I agree with the above poster.

Friday night, a local AAA baseball team will be having 8 New York Ranger Hockey Players (this is my son's dream). We are taking my DS9 to the game.

While at the game, we will tell him at the time it's appropriate to let him know, that we will be standing in line waiting for these sports players to meet, photograph and get signatures.

At that time, my son will be grateful and be happy, estatic, etc.

However, if (for whatever reason) they do not show up, the crowds are out of control, it rains heavily, etc., then my son will not miss out. My DH and I will find another venue or game with other activities such as this and handle it in the same manner.

 

[Laugh O. Grams]

I have read many times on here that the CM's at Tink's Treasure only ask children to Wake Tink - I have also read that adults have asked and been told no that it preferred that a child do it.

As well should be...I can only imagine the look of horror on my wife face if I ran to Tinkerbell's Treasures and, just barely edging out 3 little girls, demanded to "wake Tinkerbell" 'cause I was there first!! I'm LOL at the thought, it's so ridiculous!!

 

[Disneyglobegirl]

What is the big deal anyway?

Children don't make a BIG deal out of things unless the parents do or they hear it from the parents. If the parents are relaxed and casual about it, then the children will be. If you hype a kid up (young or older), then they are expecting to be part of the grand event. Who is in control here?

This all sounds like a waste of time.................. they could all be riding Buzz Lightyear instead!

I agree on this one - I guess that is what I was trying to say when I posted this - Just because parents read about something , they go and expect to do it - I never told my DD about Waking Tink until she was in the store with the wand in her hand to wake her up (last summer) , if she wouldn't have gotten to do it , no big deal and she would have never known. Now more people know about it and more people expect to do it or tell their kids that they will do it and when it doesn't happen there is great disappointment - I think that if you want to do it - go for it and try but it would be best not to tell the kids about it just incase it doesn't happen.

 

[Disneyglobegirl]

As well should be...I can only imagine the look of horror on my wife face if I ran to Tinkerbell's Treasures and, just barely edging out 3 little girls, demanded to "wake Tinkerbell" 'cause I was there first!! I'm LOL at the thought, it's so ridiculous!!

LOL - I agree - LOL

 

[Laurajean1014]

I never said that disney isn't for everyone - it is just that seeing the fit wasn't very disney like - people shouldn't go EXPECTING to do something just because they read about it - if it happens great if not it shouldn't cause a scene. I have read many times on here that the CM's at Tink's Treasure only ask children to Wake Tink - I have also read that adults have asked and been told no that it preferred that a child do it.

It should be and sounds like it is at the discretion of WDW or the CM. I am sure this was not the first encounter of this happening. Maybe the CM could have handled it differently. If both got their first, couldn't all open the "Box" together? Was their no win/win solution? I bet WDW has a seminar on this exact thing.

If anyone thinks that anyone has, will or should not be disappointed at WDW, it's a pipe dream that will never happen.

Some examples:

• Doesn't get the first or last seat on the ride
• Can't view the ride/show from their location
• Missed the ride/show and has to wait for next pre-show
• Didn't get the ice cream they wanted
• Didn't wear the right shoes
• Doesn't want to ride in the carriage/stroller
• Doesn't want to do what sibling(s) want to do
• Doesn't want to do what parent(s) want to do
• Wanted to go to the pool instead
• Wanted that $10 parade toy
• Balloon came loose and is now in the clouds
• Doesn't like waiting for food
• Doesn't like wait for anything
• They have a wedgy
• They need to be diaper changed
• They need a nap (for the parents too)
• They didn't see enough animals at Killamanjaro Safari
• They lost an item that is important to them
• They lost an item that is important to the parent
• They would rather be with their friends instead of their little brother/sister
• They don't like their big bother/sister

If anyone would like to "add" to this list, please do.

 

[Laugh O. Grams]

Some examples:

• Doesn't get the first or last seat on the ride
• Can't view the ride/show from their location
• Missed the ride/show and has to wait for next pre-show
• Didn't get the ice cream they wanted
• Didn't wear the right shoes
• Doesn't want to ride in the carriage/stroller
• Doesn't want to do what sibling(s) want to do
• Doesn't want to do what parent(s) want to do
• Wanted to go to the pool instead
• Wanted that $10 parade toy
• Balloon came loose and is now in the clouds
• Doesn't like waiting for food
• Doesn't like wait for anything
• They have a wedgy
• They need to be diaper changed
• They need a nap (for the parents too)
• They didn't see enough animals at Killamanjaro Safari
• They lost an item that is important to them
• They lost an item that is important to the parent
• They would rather be with their friends instead of their little brother/sister
• They don't like their big bother/sister

Man!!! It's tough being a kid!!

 

[Disneyglobegirl]

It should be and sounds like it is at the discretion of WDW or the CM. I am sure this was not the first encounter of this happening. Maybe the CM could have handled it differently. If both got their first, couldn't all open the "Box" together? Was their no win/win solution? I bet WDW has a seminar on this exact thing.


The CM did offer for everyone in the store to have a chance to hold the wand and get their picture taken at the box and give them all certificates - my DD declined since she had done it before she just wanted to watch - so anyone in the store at that time was told that they would all have a chance to get their pic taken and a certificate - So i am not sure the reason for the pouting - maybe because the smaller girls got to go first. In my opinion it was uncalled for as all the girls were going to be given a change to hold the wand and tap the box and get their pic taken.

 

[Reyasmom]

I never told my DD about Waking Tink until she was in the store with the wand in her hand to wake her up (last summer) , if she wouldn't have gotten to do it , no big deal and she would have never known. Now more people know about it and more people expect to do it or tell their kids that they will do it and when it doesn't happen there is great disappointment - I think that if you want to do it - go for it and try but it would be best not to tell the kids about it just incase it doesn't happen.

The fact is I can see her being totally overwhelm by the castle and us missing it because of that. I don't want to rush that moment when she REALIZES that she's at DISNEY WORLD! This is just an extra piece of magic I can try to add to her once in a lifetime WISH trip. She could have wished for anything. She could have wished to go to another country. She could have wished to go to Washington DC and meet the president, she could have wished to have a shopping spree. She could have wished to meet someone famous. She wished to MEET Tinkerbelle. I don't think she realizes that we can't make that wish come true. There's not someone in the parks dressed up that she can go hug. /tangent. Anyways what I'm saying is I'd like to make it so that DD has this oppertunity.