Rland8228
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- Mar 14, 2010
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Hey everyone so this is kinda gonna be a long post but I just wanted to get some opinions and some understanding. My husband and I were married in Aug of 08 and my wedding was really great. It just was not my wedding my mother picked everything from my dress to where i got married what we ate and I agreed to have it at our home so my parents could put the money into the house which never happened. And at the end I found out that they had cashed out my college fund and I had basically paid for my own wedding with that and bonds. I feel as if I was robbed of my day. My husband has always wanted to give me that wedding that I wanted and agreed that we could do a vow renewal. His parents health is not the best and I want them to be there we thought about doing a vow renewal in 2013 or 2014 For our 5 or 6 year. I wanted to get everyone's opinion. I would have done it next year but we are currently expecting our first child together my second. The other reason is I was diagnosed in Jan with diabetes and nearly died in May of this year and we have had a lot of other personal things with family and work going on and I feel it is just the right time to reaffirm our commitment to each other. So with all of this being said where do I even start. I know that I would like to have the horse and carriage possibly and also a desert party. If anyone could help that would be great Thanks