tiggerlover
I'm a Navy wife, too, currently living in Chesapeake. If you haven't lived here in 18 years, boy are you in for some changes!! It's a lot different from when we lived here the first time 6 years ago!!
The biggest difference it the housing market. The entire area, but mostly (of course) the nicer neighborhoods are in the midst of a BIG housing boom! For instance...real estate assessment values went up an AVERAGE of 11% in Virginia Beach this past year. They just announced the increases and are not trying to decide whether to lower the tax rate so folks are killed with the bills!
In our neighborhood, anything anywhere near reasonably priced is selling in just a few days. The prices in my neighborhood are up 20% in the 18 months we've lived here!! So just prepare yourself for that.
Will this be a transfer or are you finally coming home? Which base will you be at? Traffic has gotten LOTS worse just in the 6 years we were away. Empty land is disappearing...Virginia Beach has started approving neighborhoods in the flight path around Oceana as there aren't many more places to build out there.
Virginia Beach schools are still considered "good" as are Chesapeake. Portsmouth and Norfolk are still considered "not so good"; not sure about Suffolk or anything on the Peninsula. As always, there are exceptions to all of those...it really depends on the individual school. Lots of school are overcrowded (especially Chesapeake) since the area has really boomed population-wise but school construction just doesn't keep up.
Any specific questions? Will be glad to help any way I can. Don't have a lot of specifics about the beach since we're over in Chesapeake, but can probably help on some stuff or point you to info on the web.
www.pilotonline.com is the Virginian Pilot newspaper online and I believe there are links to the schools as well. If you're looking on the southside, Chesapeake especially, I can give you the name of a REALLY great realtor. She was the first one we used who we feel actually earned her commission!!
Let me know if you're looking for anything in particular.