WOW!!!!! Well I definatly have tons of information from you all...you are GREAT!!
Okay here is where things stand now,
We TOTALLY TRUST our realtor...like I said she is close to family. She did disclose that she is working for the seller (But I think shes working for us even though we aren't paying her commission) I say that because of how well we know her and her family!
Okay we did make the offer $200,000 plus the seller paying closing etc. Our realtor said we could offer lower if we wanted....which we didn't because $200,000 is what we would like. We have decided that we will go to $212,000 but no further. The market in our area is awful. Misty (our realtor) says its definatly a Buyers market here right now.
Okay....Yes we did get prequalified....we are already approved at 7.25 fixed which is what the interest rate was here yesterday of course it could come down again before we close and we could lock in that rate. I laughed because all we were told to put down in ernest money was $500...goes to show the difference in where you live. Our "potential" closing date is set for August 31st but we will probably not move in until the end of September. Our buying this house is not contengent on selling mom's home or ours. We could have the down payment anytime we want.
We have already talked to an electrician, air conditioner man and foundation person to come in and check once and if our offer is accepted. If any problems are found the seller can 1. Fix them 2. Give us "credit" in the amount it would take to fix the problem 3. We can withdraw the deal. In our contract we specified that a licensed roofer would have to give us a letter stating the shape of the roof. The bank of course has its appraiser come out.
So right now we are simply waiting.....One thing I didn't know is that they don't have to offer a counteroffer. Misty said that our offer would be accepted or declined, if it is declined they will then give a counter offer. I don't know this is all so new to me too.
Oh and they do still live in the house although some things are packed up. The reason they are moving is because he is a manager of our J.C. Penny and is retiring. There is only him and his wife and they don't need this huge house. I don't know whether or not they are leaving Greenville. Okay this was a really long update...LOL!