anricat
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Just reading through this and wanted to comment that some of the disagreement may be cultural. People from "the British Isles" tend to be more blunt than Americans. They would call the way Americans "sugar coat" things fake. Americans call it being sensitive to other people. Tomaato, tomato. I would say having a balcony (verandah, whatever they call it to make the up charge worth it) is probably far superior to not having a balcony. I personally refuse to pay the upcharge to get one... and I want my children to "suffer" a bit. They are already over privileged just cruising-- the last thing they need is concierge or a balcony.
I think we're getting a little off-topic here, but I deeply disagree with your broad overgeneralization. I have relatives from NYC that are about the most blunt people you've ever met. I also have friends from the UK and they are about the most kind and considerate people I've met. I don't think this is about bluntness or sugar coating, I think it's about treating people with kindness and respect and I think that is something that various people from all cultures do and don't do to varying degrees. I think that sometimes the world as a whole needs more of the former.