Venting Neighbor and Snow

Disneybuckeye

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Yes, I know another neighbor and snow vent.

We were slammed with about 10-12 inches of heavy wet snow yesterday. We live on a wide, but small residential street in a neighborhood that has been around for over 100 years. Many houses on the street do not have driveways or garages, and many that have them the people do not use. Everyone parks in front of their own house if they street park. (yes, parties, holidays etc. are a different matter but do not come to play in this issue)

This morning DH had to leave really early as he coaches HS swimming and they had the meet to see who goes to state. DS helped push him out due to all the snow. About 10am I went out to shovel an area to get to my car for work tomorrow and a path to where DH parks his car. I spent over an hour moving heavy snow around. Keep in mind I am only 5'3'' and am pretty petite. It was hard work.

Our next door neighbor came out while I was shoveling, waded through the snow to his car that was in front of his house, and tried to drive away. He got stuck. He then shoveled a small path to get his car out and left. I was shoveling before he came out, while he was out there, and still going when he left. He knew what I was doing, why I was doing it, and that I spend quite some time doing it.

When he returned he parked in front of our house right where I had cleared the spot for DH's car. I saw him park there and walked out and asked him to please move as I had cleaned that spot for my husband I offered to shovel a spot out for him if he would like in front of his house. He is well over 6 feet and in good shape. He also shoveled his walkway yesterday so I do not believe shoveling is a health issue for him. There were also no other cars parked in front of his house so he had 50 feet to maneuver. There was no danger of him sliding into another parked car.

I know street parking is first come first serve, but there was no danger of him not having a spot to park in if he did not park in front of my house. The whole 50 feet in front of his house was open as was his driveway. That is much closer to where he was going than where he parked in my clean spot. The only inconvenience was he had to walk through snow when he opened his car door if he did not park where I shoveled. I feel like he was being lazy and inconsiderate and am appalled that I had to ask him to move. Was I out of line?
 

You need to put something in your spot to save it. A garbage can, a lawn chair or something else that blocks it. Hopefully though he got the message and won't do it again. Try that in NY or Boston and you might find some damage to your car when you come back out.

He should be embarrassed and ashamed of himself. Nobody likes shoveling snow but you don't take someone else's spot because of your laziness. Glad you talked to him and didn't let him get away with it.
 
I would have let him stay parked there and put the snow back.
DH and I have done this. No...We're not sorry and yes we're aware this also makes us jerks. It's been a frustrating winter for us with parking issues(like people who don't even live on our street consistently parking in the spot in front of our house when there are plenty of other, albeit unclear spots and people parking with their car hanging halfway in front of my small driveway to avoid snowbanks).
 
.....my first thought was how come he didn't even ask if you needed any help.....

That would be way too much to ask of him. He does not do his leaves and they have huge trees. His wife makes a half hearted attempt every now and then. Eventually they all blow over into our yard and DH and I clean them up.

It would have been second nature for DH to help his wife out if the situation were reversed. The rest of us on the street all kind of help each other out. This one guy really only thinks of himself. He is European. Not sure if it is a cultural thing.
 
.....hmmm....interesting....cultural or not, there's something to be said for common courtesy.
 
What's this guy normally like? Do you know eachother well?

I think all this snow and cold is making people a little nuts.
 
I'm confused, was his side of the street clear to park? Did you say he has a driveway that was all shoveled out?

Around here, you can't "save" spots but people do. You have to put a lawn chair or something to save it, otherwise, it's up for grabs unfortunately. He sounds either inconsiderate or oblivious. Or maybe both.
 
Now I really need to thank my "across the street" neighbor for snow blowing all my wet heavy snow this morning!:thanks:
 


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