And at long last, the start of the ceremony...
As a side note, here are the songs that were played during the prelude:
- “The Disney Songbook” by Jim Brickman
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One Little Spark (The song from Journey into Imagination with Figment!

) by Richard Sherman and Robert Sherman
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Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desire by Johann Sebastian Bach
When our moms walked down the aisle the song,
The Simple Things by Jim Brickman was played. They each carried down our vases for the sand ceremony set. Kris’ mom was escorted by his cousin, the extra groomsman on Kris’ side and then my cousin (who stood up on my side) walked my mom down the aisle.
As the guys were walking into the rotunda, Kris’ cousin had forgot that he had to go back to walk out with the guys and in the video you see him sit next to his wife in the audience and then he suddenly jumps back up and walks to the front; it was kind of funny because no one noticed until we watched the video.
Once we got into the gallery off the rotunda, my dad was escorted out by someone since I was going to walk out by myself and then would meet him at the end of the aisle for the actual walk. My bridesmaids kept trying to peek through the glass showcase to see Kris. While we were waiting we could hear the guy’s music playing as they were walking into the rotunda; he had picked out a Morrissey song called
Everyday is Like Sunday I made him find an instrumental version that was played through a CD player.
The funny thing is that since my cousin who is a musician at Disney wasn’t able to play guitar because of union rules we had the music played on a CD player. Only two songs were done through the player and the rest were done live by the pianist. On a side note, I was really specific about the different versions of things that I wanted played since I play piano myself. Marion worked hard to get us the best pianist on property and he was amazing! Kristov (no idea on spelling) was unbelievable; he played everything exactly how I wanted it. I think she was more worried about the music than I was because I knew if I gave them what I wanted in advance Disney would make sure that it was taken care of at the wedding.
The bridesmaids walked out to Kristov playing
Somewhere Over the Rainbow in honor of my love of all things Wizard of Oz.
I remember chatting with everyone at this point while we were waiting to go out, but I don’t remember what was said. I know that a couple of the girls said that they couldn’t believe the day was finally here after so long! Pretty soon it was just me in the gallery with Marion’s assistant for the day. I made some small talk, but I remember thinking to myself what do you say to a complete stranger right before you walk down the aisle. Here I am circling around to meet my dad
I only kept the blusher on the veil down until I met him at the end of the aisle and then he flipped it before we walked down together. Apparently, the aisle was supposed to be 6 feet wide and they made it much narrower. My mom said that Marion was extremely mad and almost made them have the guests stand up to rearrange. My mom told her not to worry that we would make it down okay and thankfully we didn’t bump into anyone.
Here is my dad flipping the veil; we practiced this several times with my Mickey bride ears to make sure that we got it to lay straight. I have seen so many brides that have their veil sticking in some strange way after having it flipped by their husband or dad.
Walking down the aisle, my dad was smiling really big. He said later he did that to keep from crying. It was sweet because at my parent’s wedding he was the only one that cried. In the video you can see me scanning the crowd because I was trying to look at everyone as they were taking pictures; after all I know how hard I try to get the perfect shot for my scrapbook!
Kris’ first look of me walking down the aisle; I walked down to the Bridal Chorus by Richard Wagner. In the video, you can see him trying to peek around when I’m walking from the gallery. He looks scared to death!
After my dad and I made it down the aisle, the past or asked my dad,
Who Presents this Woman to be Married? The funny part is deciding what would be said at this part was a huge discussion. My mom always said that she wasn’t giving me away and I don’t consider myself someone to be given and taken (I know a little over the top) so the night before the wedding we came up with this compromise with the pastor, I think it worked out just right and to be honest I think we were the only ones that noticed this was different.
To start the ceremony, our friend sang the song
Beautiful which is off Jim Brickman’s “Disney Songbook” CD (a great collection of Disney songs with piano, we used a lot of these during the ceremony). I think it’s from one of the Cinderella movies. His wife was my matron of honor and he also served as the master of ceremonies. Kris and I were both in their wedding four years ago too.
If you want to see a clip of him singing just follow the link, it starts a little into the song. We had cut it down to one verse at the rehearsal because Marion mentioned that too often there can be awkward periods of time when you’re listening to a reading or song. She was right, the minute or so that he did sing was just right.
While we were listening to him sing I kept looking at the groomsmen because they were all staring at me. It finally dawned on me of course everyone’s staring at me, I’m the bride. I could tell Kris was pretty nervous; he kept squeezing my hands so tight. My mom’s best friend said that they could all see my knuckles turning white from his grip.
We had decided on a fairly traditional ceremony. After the song was finished, the pastor went right into the ceremony.
Dearly beloved: we have come together in the presence of God to witness the joining together of this man and this woman in holy matrimony. The sacred relationship of marriage was established by God in creation, and our Lord Jesus adorned marriage by His presence and first miracle at the wedding in Cana of Galilee. The apostle Paul chose marriage to symbolize the union between Christ and his church, and holy Scripture commends marriage to be honored among all people.
The union of husband and wife in heart, body, and mind is intended by God for their mutual joy; for the help and comfort given to one another in prosperity and adversity; and when it is God’s will, for procreation of children and their nuture in the knowledge and love of the Lord. Therefore, marriage is not to be entered unadvisedly or lightly, but soberly, deliberately, and in reverent fear before God.
Into this holy union, Kris and Vanessa now come to be joined.
Kris, will you have this woman to be your wife; to live together in the holy covenant of marriage? Will you love her, comfort her, honor and keep her in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others to be faithful to her so long as you both shall live.
Kris answered, “I will.” Neither one of us was crying at this point, so I thought that was a good sign. Kris was so serious, you could tell that he was really concentrating. Every once in a while he would give this big smile .
Vanessa, will you have this man to be your husband; to live together in the holy covenant of marriage? Will you love him, comfort him, honor, and keep him in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others to be faithful to him so long as you both shall live?
I answered, “I will.”
Next up the vows and we officially become husband and wife!