Number 1 was closeness to Disney, so I booked in Windsor Palms.
2. Bed situations had to work out for us, since most big families rent the big homes, it is important that the big homs have at least 2 master suites both with King beds. Kids beds are also important
3. Yes, anything but white on the outside, I say a really pretty one painted a carmel color.
4. Decorate the inside nice, not with those yucky pastel florida colors, make it feel warm and cozy.
5. heated pool without paying extra for it would be nice.