Here's what I propose: Plan your restaurants and meals as if you were going to do the DDP, but don't buy the DDP. Buy the Ratzo DDP instead. I'll bet the majority of times this is done, you'll have money left over on my plan with less compromises.
You have so many assumptions in here.
First assumption, that you think I've been overpaying. I get most of my food at WDW extremely cheap via discounts, gift cards, points, promotions, payment methods, etc... and have been sharing savings strategies on the Dis for 7 years. We used the DDP when it saved us money, which it did lots of on our earlier trips, as well as providing many other great benefits.
Second assumption is that people are picking solely based on cost. (which is what this entire thread is about - is cost the sole factor or does anything else matter). As long as the DDP is within +/- 5% of my estimate, I would
still use it for the tangential benefits. Even if it was -10% I still might use it.
Third assumption is that other people for whom the DDP is actually ideal, are really just clones of you, thus should spend the way you do because it's best for you. You seem to be a vet, like you've been around the block and you know the one best strategy. But you don't seem to accept families eat differently! If I was going with newbies or people who haven't been in a long time, I'd suggest they get the plan. It's just -- fun. It's easy. It gets people to prepay in ways they wouldn't if they were just setting aside money for their trip (aka the Ratzo Plan). I also just discovered a good use for the DxDP by reading the above posts, which I'd never thought would be effective
for us.
Fourth assumption is that people equate putting money on a gift card with getting an all-inclusive trip. It's not. Now while I go to WDW loaded up on gift cards, most people and we're talking like 99% of people out there, don't. They just want to go have fun, be on vacation, and maybe order items that cost $45 or a $39 buffet for everyone which they would skip if they were paying for it out of pocket. Yes it still comes out of their pocket at some point, but the separation is healthy.
Fifth assumption, is that I've
ever compromised on a meal. Who does this? I order what I want when I want it, and if given my style of spending, I can save money or improve our experience w the DDP, then I do. I don't think I've ever uttered the words "oh look we
can't order an appetizer". I can't see any adult dropping $5k on a Disney trip sitting in a restaurant and throwing up their arms and going "oh look alcohol isn't covered, guess we're dry this trip". ROFL
Are we going to use the DDP on our upcoming visit? No. But I already know based on where we're eating that it's not going to be close. On past trips tho, we were a family of 2A/3C, ate at places like Akershus, Chef Mickeys and Biergarten, and made out like bandits on the plan. We'd split meals, leverage kid-points efficiently, and so on. We really crushed it on the plan back then which is easy to do when you're 2A/3C and resourceful.
Point is, you just can't generalize. The Ratzo Plan might be better for 2/3 of guests. But then it would be worse for 1/3 of guests. So why sell it to everyone? Why not ask the questions first, then make a recommendation?