Well, I was upside down and that's why the payments ended up being so high. My house payment is very low(less than my car payment) I am refinancing, which will increase my payment, but will incorporate a higher interest loan as well. I am not having trouble paying my bills at all, just disheartened that I am so upside down.
I can buy out the lease, but I owe $7K more than the blue book value. No bank will loan me that much more than a car is worth. At this point, I will keep paying and try to pay extra whenever I can. Once I get to the point that I can finance the van through my credit union, I will buy it from the lease. Then I can either drive it or sell it and get something newer.
Not going to DIsney is not an option for me, at least for this year. Renting a car may be an option. To me, it doesn't make sense to rent a car for a week to drive to the beach--it's around 400 miles round trip, 15 cents a mile in overage would be 60.00, while renting a car would be more than that. Besides, if I follow my plan, I don't need to worry so much about mileage, right?
Thanks for all the advice. I'll definitely consider it all. And I will finance through the credit union next time; they have been truthful with me everytime I have dealt with them.
Marsha
A few thoughts. There is almost no scenario in which buying (or leasing) a new car is going to improve you finances. You may be able to kid yourself by lowering a payment but you are just pushing the problems off to the future. As someone has said, your rolled your last upside down value into this car.You say that you are not having trouble paying your bills which is good. In that case, if you have good cash flow, stick with this car and put the extra money you would pay on the new mortgage into the bank to pay your buy out. If you mortgage it, you are paying for a car you don't have for the next 30 years. You are upside down because you are driving a car that is nicer than the amount you are paying per month. Consider it a lesson learned. You made a great point that no bank will give you a car loan for more than the car is worth - basically that is what the car dealer did on the second loan when the rolled it in. Going forward with your mileage, you need to buy cars on 3 yr loans not 5 yr loans or leases. this means paying more each month for the van. If you can't afford the 3 year payments you need to buy a cheaper car.