I think I'm still in shock! I don't know when it will really hit me- my mind is still going a mile a minute! I did go to the Disney website- but I find ppl on this forum to much better at decribing things and giving tips. Thanks so much.
don't try the disney website for info on this... you'll find much better info here and other websites (just google wdw info or contemporary info/pics, etc).
try to watch the fireworks from the tower's observation areas one night - we've always had tower rooms mk view there and watched from our balcony, so I haven't tried the observation areas, but I believe you can go out the doors on the ends of the tower (use the one closest to the MK obviously), and the higher up you can go, the better. But there might be one main one to use... maybe someone else can chime in on that.
The fast food area is great for a deluxe - not the same set up and selection as a value, so don't be disappointed... but I believe you'll find enough to satisfy you. We loved it (we were there this past april).
There's a transportation boat that does a triangle from CR to the Wilderness Lodge to Ft. Wilderness, and back to the CR (it doesn't go to the MK). It's a nice ride if you wanted to go to WL or the Fort for any reason (hoop de do review is always fun!) It's out back behind the pool area by the marina. And oh yeah, Sammy Duvalls watersports is at the marina... my dh and ds9 have parasailed twice now from there - they say it's AMAZING! (dh's always looking for gators in Bay Lake below him - in case the rope breaks!

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The laundry area is only in the garden wing (I find it so weird they haven't put one in the tower), so you'll be close to it if you need it.
The pool area is great - lots of loungers and tables, hammocks on the beach, nice grassy lawn area, large pool so it never feels too crowded.
Enjoy - once you go deluxe, it's hard to go back to anything else, so beware!