Untitled DL chat thread. Everyone is welcome! Part 12

[tinkermell]

I see green lights, but nobody around. Waahhhhhhhh!

I need to go to, but I kind of wanted to look up that restaurant. Phooey!!

 

[staley7580]

I see green lights, but nobody around. Waahhhhhhhh!

I need to go to, but I kind of wanted to look up that restaurant. Phooey!!

Hey!! I am still here!!

 

[staley7580]

But obviously all alone!

 

[MotoXPrincess99]

Good Morning Heyenas!

Winter is finally here! It is a brisk 30 degrees but weather.com says it feels like 25! (I agree).

Oh Lynn!! You have helped me out SOO much! I was almost in tears! You should see how clean my house is! Dh said we can see a lawyer, but I dont think it will even go that far. I will say he cant see him, and he can take me to court... Will that happen.. NO!

A few years back DBF's ex showed up at our door with DBF's DS. Now DBF hadn't seen his son since 1999, when his son was just 2 weeks old. (His ex just up and moved with her family one day, she was only like 19 or something and they had already broken up before the baby was born). Well his ex left his DS with us for 2 months! (She has mental problems, seriously, she been in a home before and everything). Well one day she came to pick him up and DS told her he wanted to live with us and after that we saw him a few more times and that was it. Now we don't know where she is again.

 

[MotoXPrincess99]

This is too cute:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1651213

Do any of you guys with kids do this?

 

[spongemommie05]

This is too cute:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1651213

Do any of you guys with kids do this?

Thanks Moto that is a cute idea, Thank you for sharing that link i am running out today to grab me an elf... maybe 5 one for each kid i do have my hands full why not make it alot more fun...LOL

 

[MotoXPrincess99]

Thanks Moto that is a cute idea, Thank you for sharing that link i am running out today to grab me an elf... maybe 5 one for each kid i do have my hands full why not make it alot more fun...LOL

Maybe 1 elf for the family would work...

 

[staley7580]

Good Morning Heyenas!

Winter is finally here! It is a brisk 30 degrees but weather.com says it feels like 25! (I agree).



A few years back DBF's ex showed up at our door with DBF's DS. Now DBF hadn't seen his son since 1999, when his son was just 2 weeks old. (His ex just up and moved with her family one day, she was only like 19 or something and they had already broken up before the baby was born). Well his ex left his DS with us for 2 months! (She has mental problems, seriously, she been in a home before and everything). Well one day she came to pick him up and DS told her he wanted to live with us and after that we saw him a few more times and that was it. Now we don't know where she is again.

Thats ****ty. I HATE it when people play games with their kids. I was a young mom, but I sure as heck stepped up and did what I needed to do to make it work. For someone to do that to their kid.. It really burns my biscuits.

Mean while... I got notice that my first Child support check is being processed!!! A whopping $122. Whatever, at least its something! I was checking his CS debt, and he is back up to almost $7000. It was that much when the action was taken! He is soooo freaking stupid.

Dh and I were talking this morning, and he said we can get a lawyer, and petition for James to give up his rights to Alex.. Which is what I want, of course. But I dont want to pay the money if he is just going to say no... KWIM? Dh asked if I had really thought he was gone forever, and I said that I had hoped... But he said he always knew that one day that knock would be back on our door. Grrrr... I guess I just have to talk to him, and see what the hell he wants. I told dh that they had probably garnished his entire check again, and he was coming to me for money! One time I got a $600. CS check, and I was all surprised... He called me that day freaking out on me, like I went down there and stole his check! OH WELL!!! Remember all those times I needed diapers, or formula and you were NO where around? Or didnt have enough money to pay my rent?

Sorry Im rambling... I didnt get much sleep last night. I am still freaking out pretty good... Plus with 2 of Alex's fish dying.. I didnt even have the heart to tell him. Plus with christmas coming... I think that really has me bummed too. Our first christmas with out my dad...ugh.. Trying not to think about that. and the fact that we keep trying, and nothing is happening. No wonder I have been such a wreck lately!

 

[dizzyami]

GOOD MORING HYENA'S!!!

Staley - so sorry to hear about all the problems. I understand from a different perspective, as I was the child in the situation (granted I was older when it happened). Hopefully you can get it all to work out - and maybe this will all work out good so that Frelan can adopt Alex

 

[staley7580]

GOOD MORING HYENA'S!!!

Staley - so sorry to hear about all the problems. I understand from a different perspective, as I was the child in the situation (granted I was older when it happened). Hopefully you can get it all to work out - and maybe this will all work out good so that Frelan can adopt Alex

Thanks Dizzy! I hope dh can adopt him too!!

 

[dizzyami]

Thanks Dizzy! I hope dh can adopt him too!!

Hi Staley - I figured you were gone (I forget that the DIS changed for daylight savings time - so the time is an hour off for me)

Hopefully things will get better - they always have a way of working out for the best.

 

[dizzyami]

DH just called - he wants me to come to work as soon as I drop off Alec I guess one of his employees hemoirrods (sp.) busted and he is bleeding everywhere (remember too this is a restaurant)

I guess more hours for me - I can't knock the extra cash ...maybe now is the time to approach him on the ladies only trip

 

[staley7580]

Hi Staley - I figured you were gone (I forget that the DIS changed for daylight savings time - so the time is an hour off for me)

Hopefully things will get better - they always have a way of working out for the best.

I hope so!! I know they will with Alex's dad.. Im sure eventually he will just fade away like always! It was just all in one day you know? The fish we bought Alex to make up for his first Christmas since his Grandpa died... 2 of them died.. In ONE DAY! Plus it is starting to hit me that this will be our first christmas without my dad... and DH keeps being stupid.

 

[staley7580]

DH just called - he wants me to come to work as soon as I drop off Alec I guess one of his employees hemoirrods (sp.) busted and he is bleeding everywhere (remember too this is a restaurant)

I guess more hours for me - I can't knock the extra cash ...maybe now is the time to approach him on the ladies only trip

OMG!!! how awful!! and gross! I would definitely approach him about the trip now!

 

[dizzyami]

I hope so!! I know they will with Alex's dad.. Im sure eventually he will just fade away like always! It was just all in one day you know? The fish we bought Alex to make up for his first Christmas since his Grandpa died... 2 of them died.. In ONE DAY! Plus it is starting to hit me that this will be our first christmas without my dad... and DH keeps being stupid.

What did your DH do - I remember one day he came home really late - but other then that I probably missed anything else.

I am so sorry on the rest too - I have been really lucky and have never really dealt with anything like that - but I am terrified when I do experience it because I know I will be a complete wreck. A sad song on the radio, or a sad movie makes me bawl hysterically - and depending on my mood I can sometimes never get it out of my head - I pretty much stick to just comedies now!!!

 

[dizzyami]

OMG!!! how awful!! and gross! I would definitely approach him about the trip now!

(I picked this smilie intentionally) He called, I expected someone didn't show up, they were really busy, someone was sick - NEVER did I expect to hear that excuse

 

[dizzyami]

I need help - ideas for what to get DH's crew. They range in age from 16 to 40 - some are very poor - others are just ambitious high school kids, or regular working adults. Don't want to spend a ton of money - but want to show that I care

 

[staley7580]

What did your DH do - I remember one day he came home really late - but other then that I probably missed anything else.

I am so sorry on the rest too - I have been really lucky and have never really dealt with anything like that - but I am terrified when I do experience it because I know I will be a complete wreck. A sad song on the radio, or a sad movie makes me bawl hysterically - and depending on my mood I can sometimes never get it out of my head - I pretty much stick to just comedies now!!!

Oh god... me too! I cry ALL the time! We were at Cabellas yesterday, and they were doing an Army re-enlistment ceremony in front of the giant animal mountain thingy...I was bawling!! I dont know why.. I didnt know anyone there... We just happened to be there in the store!

My dh just tends to be a bit dense sometimes.. He has been working ALOT lately, so he is alway tired and doesnt quite catch on to things really quickly. its just little insignificant things... but right now, it is frustrating the heck out of me! We really are quite loving... Just this morning I told him I was going to rip off his arm and beat him with it... His reply? Dont make me gut you with a spoon! Ahhh... true love!

 

[staley7580]

I need help - ideas for what to get DH's crew. They range in age from 16 to 40 - some are very poor - others are just ambitious high school kids, or regular working adults. Don't want to spend a ton of money - but want to show that I care

Gift cards? You could do like a 5 or 10 dollar gift card for every one. Of course... I dont know how many people there are, so that could get spendy. Hmmmm...Do you bake? You make up a basket of things for everyone... Thats what I do.

 

[dizzyami]

Oh god... me too! I cry ALL the time! We were at Cabellas yesterday, and they were doing an Army re-enlistment ceremony in front of the giant animal mountain thingy...I was bawling!! I dont know why.. I didnt know anyone there... We just happened to be there in the store!

My dh just tends to be a bit dense sometimes.. He has been working ALOT lately, so he is alway tired and doesnt quite catch on to things really quickly. its just little insignificant things... but right now, it is frustrating the heck out of me! We really are quite loving... Just this morning I told him I was going to rip off his arm and beat him with it... His reply? Dont make me gut you with a spoon! Ahhh... true love!

Hopefully he can relax on your vacation (dang n key is sticking now too - I miss my PC). I do hope though that he can get his hours reduced - I know you don't need to hear this from me - but he is scaring the heck out of me from all the way over here!