ShayBells
Let's get dangerous.
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Lol, sometimes it is a piece of the process of change. I adore my children. When I found out my fourth was another boy I cried for about 10 minutes over the girl I'd never have. Then we went to lunch and named him. When I found out about the fp+ Stuff I panicked and was bummed. Then I griped to my husband for a wee bit. Talked to my mom and sister. Remembered why we were taking the trip which has nothing to do with rides...and then moved on. I would gather that people are at different stages in the process and a vent isn't hurting anything. I'm just tired of the whole "you are an ungrateful wretch if you don't just put a smile on your face and move on because others in the world have it worse" That is obvious. Name any problem and someone somewhere has it worse. My moms cancer was only colon. She should have just sucked it up because others had worse cancers.
That wasn't my point. Sure people are allowed to be upset. It's human nature. My point was to be happy you have a vacation at all. Be upset something isn't working than feel blessed that you get to go on vacation. Look for the positives.
When my Cousin got cancer her parents were upset but they felt blessed when she lived.
Counting your blessings and feeling lucky isn't awful.
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