Hi everyone,
firstly a big thank you for all your concern and messages today, its so sweet and thoughtful of you all

I am pleased to say it looks like I was worrying over nothing! Actually I'm a little bit angry about it. We walked into the doctor and he acted like he didnt have a clue why we were there. He looked over the test results and couldnt see anything significantly wrong. There was 3 low markings next to results, 1 for thyroid, 1 for white blood cell count and the other i dont know, but he thinks they are not low/high enough to warrant further investigation.
I pushed the issue of how cara has been feeling and that we needed to do something and he has referred us to the mental health unit for cara to see a child psychologist, hopefully the wait won't be too long.
So relief that physically we know she is ok, not anaemic or anything else, and a step in the right direction for the other stuff. But I am annoyed that essentially the doctor hadn't looked at the results at all. i have a hunch that the receptionist thought it might be the best way to get the matter dealt with, and in the process scared me half to death!

Sorry it took me so long to get back to you all, I was over at my other half as he had the boys and by the time i got there he was ready to feed all of us and play with the kids, essentially to let me switch off for a couple of hours, think he knew i was at my limits today bless him.
Thankyou all again xxx