As with any situation, I always try to gauge my actions by their reasonableness. For example, when DS10 was much younger, and a picky eater, we would get a sugar cookie or kids meal at Contempo and bring it up to TOWL so that the rest of us could enjoy some drinks and food while DS was content with what he had. Would I bring meals for my whole family to TOWL from Contempo, and not order any food or drinks in the lounge? No. That is not reasonable. Then of course there is the whole grey area in between...