Exactly. I'd rather see more parties, thus hoping to spread out the crowds a bit. I can't imagine the crowd with only 1-2 parties per week.
More parties just means selling more tickets to parties. It does
not mean fewer guests per party. WDW would not schedule more parties, taking on the extra costs for the shows and M&Gs, etc., unless parties were selling out so they need to add more, with all parties selling most of their tickets. Just like musical acts adding concert tour dates. Fewer parties would mean more people couldn't go to them because they could not get tickets to a capped event.
What more parties do is crowd up the nights where there are not parties, as then the park is only capped at fire-marshall rules. People not attending parties all have to crowd into a couple of nights for their one shot at doing MK at night. Everyone, party-goers and everyone else, has fewer chances to see the regular Wishes, so those nights are the crazy crowds. Not party nights. Fewer parties would ease the demand for MK on non-party nights.
The parties induce more people to pay extra for PHs if they want to do MK during the day of a party and then enjoy the evening at another park, which seems like the only reasonable way to handle four parties in a week. So parties can cost you a premium even when you do not attend. More parties exacerbate the issue.
And then, there is the additional stuff. Who magically knows you can book something like the pirates and pals, or pirates league, or, that there is club villain, or any of that. OK, you don't NEED it. But, really there is SO much extra involved in organising a disney holiday, and if you are on the DIS, this is second nature, if not, then, it can be really challenging.
Exactly. Yes, my TA gave me pointers about PPO character meals, ADRs at 180, FP at 60, but that is about it. Nothing about the daunting array of premium extras, not even BBB, let alone fireworks parties and cruises or tours, or to watch out for how parties can affect tour planning.
Not to mention BINGO to the PP who mentioned the reality of things being different in the here and now no matter how much research you do. I booked in April before EMM existed, and I made ADRs (which means planning which park on which day) before they extended EMM into December. What should I do about the possible-but-not-definite existence of RoL? And I have every reason to expect that some of my PPO reservations will become RD reservations once they adjust park hours--but I'm 83 days out and I still don't know which/how many of my vacation days will be affected.
No one can plan for every detail and monkey wrench Disney PTB will throw at them.
So, OP, I get how dealing with the reality of planning and executing a trip around MK not being available so many nights is frustrating.