I don't really mind what color my son likes, but no one is painting my son's nails. Manicure, fine. Nail painting, nope. There is no reason for us to feminize young men and say that it is okay. I'm all about kids making their own choices to a certain extent, but at some point, a line has to be drawn between the sexes, and for me this is one of them.
I am sure OP is not a homophobe, and neither am I. For you to connect anti-gay with a cross gender practice that is not needed at that age, is absurd.
And to OP, I hate that show and will not watch it at all. I feel sorry for all of the kids on that show. They are missing out on the best part of their childhood due to overzealous parents who are trying to live vicariously through them IMO.
And since this one is going to the dumper real quick, I'll just say it now....