To splurge or not to splurge?

I so get what your going through...as a mom to 3, MOST of my life has been about someone else. However, along came my 40th bd a few years back and I realized, HEY, life is short, when is it MY time? The answer is NOW! I no longer feel guilty when doing something for myself or for us as a couple. I've sacrificed, given and gone with out long enough. It's my time, no guilt allowed. Do it, enjoy and and take a million pictures so you can capture the amazing memories!!

SPLURGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Mike: Just give me the points. Everyone can guess what I'm thinking. :eek:
 
Especially the eye!!!!:scared:

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You'll shoot your eye out!
You'll shoot your eye out!
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IMO, I'd splurge.

Although my partner and I are very sensible when it comes to money, although after the 52% paper drop in our investments last year we are investing more now to make up for it so we have less money to splurge with, we intentionally splurge on vacation every year.

We've stayed at the Grand Floridian and Polynesian among other places. We've upgarded to a suite on a cruise and typically rent higher end luxury vehicles on vacation (ie. H2, Escalade, etc.). After we pay our bills and invest based on our financial decision for the year, the rest of the money is play money and although you don't need money to make lasting memories sometimes spending the money on an experience is worth every cent.

Example, my bestfriend graduated medical school. I tossed around what to get her, from simple things, to extravagant. I finally settled on taking her to Philadelphia, all expense paid with dinner at Morimotos.

We drove down from Syracuse to Philadelphia, stayed at the Loews Philadelphia in a VIP room, and then went to dinner at Morimotos. When we arrived I asked to be sat at the sushi bar (we've been before so we knew the routine) and proceeded to order an off-menu priced Omakase (tasting menu) with paired drinks (not just wine, but all sorts of alcholic goodness).

Words cannot explain how amazing the meal was. From a dish centered around mushrooms, capped with the most expensive mushroom in the world (note, truffles are not the most expensive mushroom, they are the most expensive fungus, but there is a difference), to the master chef himself, coming to our side of the sushi bar, opening our salt encrusted sweet fish and personally pulling each white flaky piece of meat from the tiny bones and demonstrating the proper way to eat it, the meal was flawless.

The trip was VERY expensive to say the least, but if you ask my bestfriend what was the best gift she ever received, the trip is #1. I could have just bought her a gift from the mall, but I decided to splurge and show her an experience she will never forget!

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Wow! Maybe we should change the name of this forum to "Splurgers Splurging!"

Thanks for all the input, everyone. So I went to splurge and buy the tickets today but of course the airline gods were not with me and the price went up a hundred bucks.... BUT... not to worry. They've been doing that a lot over the last couple of weeks. So either tonight or tomorrow, the price should come down again.

(For the record, its a splurge but its a small splurge. I'm totally going to do this one splurge and then another splurge--probably on labor day or thanksgiving!)
 
If you have been saving up and don't need to borrow from credit cards, then by all means, go ahead and go all out. At least once. Lord knows there's no guarantees that there will be a "next time". I'd go for it! :banana:
 
Whoooa, wait a sec. You've dined at Morimoto's? Wow.

OK, PLEASE give a small dining critique on the experiences? I can gather from your comments in your post that you had a wonderful time, but I am totally begging for details. ::yes::

We love Morimoto and Japanese food, so this would be a true splurge for us, too.
 
What's that for? Sad that I gave my bestfriend a wonderful experience that she'll remember for the rest of her life?

No that was very nice of you.
The poster asked if he should Splurge not your investment background.
 
Whoooa, wait a sec. You've dined at Morimoto's? Wow.

OK, PLEASE give a small dining critique on the experiences? I can gather from your comments in your post that you had a wonderful time, but I am totally begging for details. ::yes::

We love Morimoto and Japanese food, so this would be a true splurge for us, too.

I've dined there more then once, I've been a few times, even though I live 5 hours away, and we're probably going down this fall too.

Now, there is more then one Morimoto in the US, the original is Philadelphia, however the first venture of Morimoto in the US was Nobu in NYC.

The restaurant is very modern with a contemporary twist. The median walls change color through out the meal but the overall restaurant is fairly dark.

I've eaten in the general dining area and when we took my friend at the Sushi Bar, which I would definately do again as it really puts you close to the chefs, and you can view a little into the "hot food" kitchen (not really intentionally designed as an open kitchen, but from the Sushi bar you can see back there.

Avoiding discussions of "price" per se, it was a very expensive Omakase, off menu and included 9 courses. Some were more memorable then others and I'll be honest, I would never recommend getting the Alcohol Omakase, espicially off menu, its just too much alcohol and even just drinking a small amount of each drink will leave you pretty toasted.

Some of the most memorable dishes was the salt encrusted sweet fish. Each of us was served a sweet fish that was cooked in the hot kitchen in a salt crust. It was not cooked in any other fashion besides being buried in a mound of salt. When it comes it there is a banana leaf with a mound of salt with a small crack horizontally midway down.

We all knew what it was (we've watched Iron Chef a few times), but had no clue how to open it properly, eat it, etc. So we asked the master chef on that night (Morimoto was not at the restaurant that night) how to eat it. Instead of just explaining it though, he walked around the sushi bar and came to each one of us, opened our salt crust, and pulled every peice of amazingly cooked sweet fish off each little bone. While he was doing it, he told us which sections offered the most flavor and how he'd recommend eating the fish.

The next course that was most memorable was the mushroom dish. It was basically a quickly heated mushroom salad with varying mushrooms from sliced hen of the woods, to small handful off matsutake mushrooms on top. I love mushrooms to begin with and it really gives you appreciation to how different each one is in terms of flavor, texture and density.

A few of the other courses was a Soy Sea Bass, Traditional Sushi Tray with Eel (I love eel, but often the sauce its cooked with is over powering at places, this was VERY well balanced), Octopus, Sea Urchin (not my favorite, even from Morimotos, I've tried it other places too, and just cannot get into it), Yellowtail, Red Snapper and a few more typical (ie. Salmon and Tuna).

In terms of drinks, we had both hot and cold sake (note: some sake is best served warm, others cold, so don't just start warming your sake at home) and one of the best drinks was a cucumber martini. I love martinis, and I've since tried to duplicate this drink, but I just cannot.

All in all, the experience was amazing, I have a picture of us all with the Master Chef at the end of dinner (and pretty drunk from the alcohol) and I can just remember the excitement my bestfriend had over the entire experience. If you love sushi and are adventerous (ie, eat anything thrown your way) I'd recommend making the trip there to eat.
 
Well, the travel gods were on our side today.... Pack your bags! We're going to gay Pa-ree! :cool1:
 
Well, the travel gods were on our side today.... Pack your bags! We're going to gay Pa-ree! :cool1:

OUI OUI!!!

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That's wonderful!!! I'm so glad your going to go!

SPLURGE!!!!
 
Well, the travel gods were on our side today.... Pack your bags! We're going to gay Pa-ree! :cool1:

AWESOME!

Paris is an amazing city. We just loved it and can't wait to go back!


Good for you!:thumbsup2
 
Merci, everyone!

I cannot wait! I haven't been in a few years. Its my favorite vacation spot ....er... um... well, after disney... I swear! :rolleyes1

I should go out and have a big plate o' snails to celebrate!
 
Yes you should! And when your thinking of presents for those of us left behind.....remember I like chocolate.:flower3:
 












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