Can I ask an honest question?
Why is it that everyone says that the day that the customer is having should have no affect on the tip they leave on one hand...
And then on the other hand say that you have to take into consideration the type of day the server is having and other factors that have nothing to do with you? Should be taken into consideration when leaving the tip...
What's with the double standard?
so does this mean that if you are having a bad day and you don't like anything or anyone, you will take it out on your server? does that make you extra critical of my service?
im not saying that table problems are not 100% the servers fault. but if your food isn't cooked the way that you like it how is that my fault? i serve the food. i can't cook it for you too. if the kitchen is slow. how is that my fault? just because the restaurant doesn't LOOK busy to you doens't mean the kitchen isn't hustling and bustling back there. there are ways for a server to save the table. but i hate when there is something wrong with the food and the guest tells me its MY FAULT. do you do that to your mom? if she cooked your steak medium and you wanted it medium rare do you complain to her too?
don't forget that im just human and i have days where NOTHING is going my way too.