First off let me say this. My hats off and a big thank you to your husband for laying his life on the line for freedom and for your sacrifice being a military wife. I served in the military and remember the sacrifice's my wife made during that time.
However, as for tipping. I'm not going to blast those who don't tip room service. However, if you go out to a restaurant and don't tip because you can't afford it then yes you should not eat there or perhaps go to a less expensive restaurant. If you still can't afford it then there is cs restaurants for you. Servers in most restaurants are paid way below minimum wage and if not tipped still have to report a percentage of tips. If you don't tip they pay to serve you. I'm sure you would not pay to perform your job.
Now if you receive horrible service that is different. I would let the manager know about the service and tell he/she because of this you are also not leaving a tip for the server.
Hello

and thank you so much for your kind words

You are right, being in the military is a hard life on both soldier and family, but we keep plodding along year after year

... so thank you for your support, it really means a lot to all of us (Soldiers and family members)
I agree with your position about tipping servers in the US... In Canada our servers are always paid a set amount first (at minimum wage at a minimum, and upwards.. Minimum wage here is around $8.00/hr) then the rest is their "gravy" so to say! So, I tip based on service received. As I said, I am not against tipping and I will look at all circumstances when deciding what to leave as my "gift" (country customs, employee salary, job position, etc...)
Where I get upset is when people look down on others for making a very personal decision and say " If you can't do/pay X, Then you shouldn't be at Y"
Tipping is a gratuity and decideable by the giver of such gratuity.
That being said, I will tip disney employees for the wonderful service they provide to my family, but I would choose how much I want to leave as a "gratuity" based on what I feel I should leave, not a pre-determined amount.
If I haven't answered yet the original post (which I was thinking all night last night I may have gotten a little side-tracked and forgotten to include

).... Well, I think that if your room is kept nice and clean, fresh towels left, fresh soaps and shampoos, your garbage cleaned..... then, it is a nice gesture to leave whatever you feel is appropriate for your families' gratuity

not very helpful, I am sorry...I think you can assertain by now I feel that tips are a very personal decision based on many, many factors.
And that's all I got to say about that

.... whew!

what a taxing subject to talk about

now off to read more about my "happy place"

for magical, special vacations no matter when you are headed to Disney.... It sure is a wonderful place like no other.
