This reply smacks of the typical lack of respect our culture has for teachers. While it seems it should be obvious, teachers are adults.
I seriously worry about a culture that is unable to differentiate between adults and children.
I wore uniforms all through school. I understood that silence was expected of students in the hallway. I never questioned why teachers could have mugs of coffee on their desk but students were forbidden to have food or drink in the classrooms. Children are children and adults are adults.
I've never heard anyone whine because their children aren't allowed to administer shots to each other at the doctor's office. I've never seen a parent go into a restaurant and order mixed drinks for their toddlers. How is it that people don't understand that teachers are professionals. We are university educated. We spend great deals of time learning about things like child psychology, brain functioning, and instructional techniques in order to plan and present lessons each day. We are not children! We do not function as children. To suggest that there should be one set of expectations for both teachers and students is absolutely ridiculous!
I'm a teacher and I'm going to suggest that this is why there is a lack of respect in society. Teachers and students should abide by most the same rules - not sure I understand how age (child vs adult) is equivalent to respect and professionalism? I teach at-risk high school students and have no problems with my students. In fact, my colleagues say I have a magical touch, guess what it is? It's called mutual respect - if they aren't allowed to drink in class, then I don't drink in class. Your example of kids not drinking in hallways, yet you having a cup of coffee on your desk is extremely disrespectful and hypocritical. Your example of administering shots is also ridiculous since that is a safety and legality issue, whereas taking a vacation is not. I am a very good teacher, so I have no problems with being treated as a professional because I always conduct myself as one. Age or amount of university education or professional training does not equal respect.
Perhaps these kinds of responses are why many people don't treat teachers as professionals?
By the way, we are not allowed to take vacations at all, except during school breaks - Christmas/NY, March Break and Summer. We also have several long weekends throughout the year as well for holidays. I take my summer vacations during the summer - July. It's hot, but where we live in Canada, we experience the same weather as in Orlando, so we are used to it. Even with asthma and allergies we are able to work it out as we are DVC members and take it easy.
I don't believe that teachers should vacation during the year. I totally feel for the OP and people in her situation, but school is very important and should function with the least amount of stress as possible. Teachers and students constantly vacationing during the year would make for lots of inconsistencies, chaos, etc. It's a difficult position for many, but as teachers, most of know that this is how vacationing works and we accept that for the love of what we do. This is why year round schooling may be a viable option as the traditional school schedule has become outdated for today's lifestyles, family situations and job requirements.
Good luck to all struggling with the vacation decision, Tiger
