Thread Killers Untied! (no Tker left behind...)

[whgrn]

OK, I uninstalled, then installed, and got the same thing back. And I have no clue how toget the smileys on here from there! But I did check the website and found this: So let's see if it shows up.

I like this smiley. It's sort of appropriate for me!!

is there an easier way to get smileys? Or do you have to go through the whole site to find a good one each time you want one?

 

[whgrn]

OK, so the link on my toolbar is useless--it won't work for forums, only email and IM. But if I click on someone else's smiliey it takes me to the website and I can search through 8 pages of smileys to see if they have the one I want.

Is there not an easier way???

 

[MagiKitty]

Ok, all this smiley talk just seems too technical for me. I didn't even know about the add programs feature. Living happily in ignorance over here....

 

[pepperw23]

Ok, all this smiley talk just seems too technical for me. I didn't even know about the add programs feature. Living happily in ignorance over here....

 

[lighttech]

BEAKER IS GONE GONE GONE..........:goodvibes :

So glad that episode is over for you.

OK, now i've done my multiquoting, I can do a "regular" post.

I am seething mad right now. Why? Well, there is a little rhymes-with-witch at school named Ciara or something like that who has been tormenting her all year, .

This is just terrible!! How dare that girl be so mean, and pick on someone as innocent and unassuming as your daughter??
I think you've done well by heading to the principal. Hopefully that will help. Its probably also time to have a big "talk" w/ your daughter too, even if you've already had one. If you feel like this might start to put pressure on her, she could probably use the open door to bring issues home to you. Might not be a bad idea to involve the ex-DH too. It might help to get a man's opinion on the whole sex thing... Of course, that depends on your and her relationship w/ him which I don't know about.

Its hard to offer too much specific advice since I don't know all about your DDs situation. You've mentioned the "IQ," but, honestly, I don't put much stock in those kinds of numbers. Also, you mentioned the special classes, but educational and social development are such totally diff't things. Would DD be able to carry-off that kind of "I don't care, so why should you?" attitude w/ her classmates? That tends to be the best remedy for these bratty little situations. I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt (its gotten me into a LOT of bad situations being so trusting though) but, I have to imagine that this little "witch" has a lot of issues of her own and is just looking for someone "weaker" (in the social hierarchy, not trying to comment on DD) to pick on and feel powerful and important. See if DD can muster a "Don't you have anything better to do?" kind of attitude. The novelty might just wear off.

I too was bullied and picked on a little here and there. (I was VERY quiet, got good grades and was an all around nerd.) I didn't make very many enemies b/c I kept to myself, but I didn't have a lot of friends either. I HATED Jr. High and didn't start finding my own level of confidence until part way thru High school. It wasn't until college that I finally realized that I didn't care what other people thought, and I was better off seeking out those who DID appreciate me than worrying about those who didn't.

Gosh, these stories make me worry so much about when my kiddies get older. That age was always so tough anyway, and w/ as advanced as kids are now, it just seems to be worse and worse. And, instead of just hurt feelings, you have to worry about physical stuff too. I have a feeling I'm going to have a lot of "grant me the serenity" and "give me strength" kind of days! for DD, and I hope that the "witch" finds something better to do w/ her time than pick on some innocent little thing.

This kind of stuff always makes me so ! I was totally picked on in school by one particular girl; 5th, 6th, 7th and a little as a freshman (the "witch" moved and then came back). Nothing was ever done. My Mom even had a meeting with "her" teacher and mother when we were in 6th but it didn't make a difference. She even told me that her mother thought my mom was just a big "witch". She threatened me with having her much older sister beat me. She use to threaten that she was going to beat me up unless I let a much weaker girl hit me in the hallways at school. I use to cry before I had to go to school. I hated her so much! I finally stood up for myself when she accused me of talking about her while she was gone. I just said "Well, I probably did." She didn't know what to make of it. I just don't understand why some people have to act like such creeps! I don't really have any advice for your daughter's situation. I think what you are doing so far is great. Make sure the principal stays on top of this.

(Can you tell this stuff winds me up!)

Sorry to hear you were picked on too! (see above about some of my stuff). I used to have one girl that would constantly steal my lunch money out of my desk and pick on me in the hall. I got so upset for a while, then I finally confronted her, and then proceeded to ignore everything she said... good or bad. It got worse for a while b/c it drove her crazy, but she eventually gave up. That taught me a lot. That, when it comes to bullies, its usually much more about how they are feeling than about how they feel about you. "What doesn't kill me...", right?

I am so sorry to hear about your DD's trouble. Give her a big from me.

What great advice. You are definitely a wise woman.

That's right! You click on the smilie and it takes you to the website it came from. Here are the two I've been using.



and



Whoo Hoo! This was my first ever multi quote!

Oh, while I am thinking about it, I have been meaning to ask you guys for some advice.

My Mom who is going with us to Disney this year has always been extremely healthy except for one thing. Her feet swell really bad when she wears shoes and walks for long distances.

She has always had this problem, no cause for it that any Dr. has been able to find. My question is: Do any of you know a good pair of shoes/flip flops that will help alleviate this for her? Funny thing is when she takes off her shoes the problem goes away.

I know CrocsRX would probably be perfect for her, but she hates Crocs.

Any suggestions?

Has she tried Birkenstocks? I kind of scoffed at their claims for a while, but we have slate tile floors, and I have back trouble. My mom got me a pair, and I started wearing them as slippers. They really break in nicely and offer support in all the right places. (The soles are made to mold to your feet, so they give each person what they need.) They do take a breaking in period though, so if you try them, be careful to wear them at home in small doses before trying a big walking vacation like Disney. Plus, since their sandals, they let your feet breathe... my feet have been swelling from the pregnancy, and I really look forward to putting them on at the end of the day now. (Can't wear open toes and work, so I have to keep my sneaks or workboots on there.)

 

[Pikester]

Hmmmm. You know, I've got a lime green Baggalini that I took to Turkey last summer, and to Disney, but somehow it seems a bit too loud for Scotland. This bag just might work. I do wish it came in Navy--the dominant color in my wardrobe for this trip!. But the black one just might be ok.

The reviews seem pretty good, but the one negative I see over and over is the outside flap pocket. What do you think of it so far? is it really a PIA to use?

Not sure about the flap yet. I will play with the bag over the weekend to see what I can get into it. So far I can fit my Passporter into the big compartment (room to spare) with a 16 oz bottle of Dasani in each mesh bottle holder. I tried a 22oz water bottle that I bought from Walmart in each pocket but it pushed into the main compartment and made it hard to get the Passporter in and out. The front flap does tri-fold. If you have the bag on across your body, you would open the top flap up toward you( there is no storage in that flap) and the next flap opens down toward the floor with a mesh pocket that has a zipper closure (the zipper is normal and placed so stuff won't fall out when you open it). Now you are at the main part of the Tri-fold. This has 3 storage pockets. The back pocket is the biggest. You could fit CD sized object in there. The next two pockets are side by side (think the same size as the other pocket but stiched in half and a little shorter). One of the pockets is lines with felt so you can slide your glasses into it and the other is just the same fabric as the bag. In between the two pockets is a loop for a pen. There is also a key ring for your keys in the tri-fold.

I know I didn't really answer your question about if the Tri-fold was a PIA but I thought you might like a description since you can't see it in the pictures that I linked to.

I will let you know when I am able to really put it to use.

 

[pepperw23]

So glad that episode is over for you.



This is just terrible!! How dare that girl be so mean, and pick on someone as innocent and unassuming as your daughter??
I think you've done well by heading to the principal. Hopefully that will help. Its probably also time to have a big "talk" w/ your daughter too, even if you've already had one. If you feel like this might start to put pressure on her, she could probably use the open door to bring issues home to you. Might not be a bad idea to involve the ex-DH too. It might help to get a man's opinion on the whole sex thing... Of course, that depends on your and her relationship w/ him which I don't know about.

Its hard to offer too much specific advice since I don't know all about your DDs situation. You've mentioned the "IQ," but, honestly, I don't put much stock in those kinds of numbers. Also, you mentioned the special classes, but educational and social development are such totally diff't things. Would DD be able to carry-off that kind of "I don't care, so why should you?" attitude w/ her classmates? That tends to be the best remedy for these bratty little situations. I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt (its gotten me into a LOT of bad situations being so trusting though) but, I have to imagine that this little "witch" has a lot of issues of her own and is just looking for someone "weaker" (in the social hierarchy, not trying to comment on DD) to pick on and feel powerful and important. See if DD can muster a "Don't you have anything better to do?" kind of attitude. The novelty might just wear off.

I too was bullied and picked on a little here and there. (I was VERY quiet, got good grades and was an all around nerd.) I didn't make very many enemies b/c I kept to myself, but I didn't have a lot of friends either. I HATED Jr. High and didn't start finding my own level of confidence until part way thru High school. It wasn't until college that I finally realized that I didn't care what other people thought, and I was better off seeking out those who DID appreciate me than worrying about those who didn't.

Gosh, these stories make me worry so much about when my kiddies get older. That age was always so tough anyway, and w/ as advanced as kids are now, it just seems to be worse and worse. And, instead of just hurt feelings, you have to worry about physical stuff too. I have a feeling I'm going to have a lot of "grant me the serenity" and "give me strength" kind of days! for DD, and I hope that the "witch" finds something better to do w/ her time than pick on some innocent little thing.



Sorry to hear you were picked on too! (see above about some of my stuff). I used to have one girl that would constantly steal my lunch money out of my desk and pick on me in the hall. I got so upset for a while, then I finally confronted her, and then proceeded to ignore everything she said... good or bad. It got worse for a while b/c it drove her crazy, but she eventually gave up. That taught me a lot. That, when it comes to bullies, its usually much more about how they are feeling than about how they feel about you. "What doesn't kill me...", right?



What great advice. You are definitely a wise woman.







Has she tried Birkenstocks? I kind of scoffed at their claims for a while, but we have slate tile floors, and I have back trouble. My mom got me a pair, and I started wearing them as slippers. They really break in nicely and offer support in all the right places. (The soles are made to mold to your feet, so they give each person what they need.) They do take a breaking in period though, so if you try them, be careful to wear them at home in small doses before trying a big walking vacation like Disney. Plus, since their sandals, they let your feet breathe... my feet have been swelling from the pregnancy, and I really look forward to putting them on at the end of the day now. (Can't wear open toes and work, so I have to keep my sneaks or workboots on there.)

Okay, this is probably going to sound insane lol, but I am going to go and buy her each one of your suggestions.

I am also going to get her some sandal called Teva that I just read about too. So, I'm off to the mall

The birkenstocks are gonna kill me financially, but by golly she is the bet Mom ever and she deserves to have fun without her feet hurting. She hates to shop so I know she won't do it herself.

See yall later.

 

[whgrn]

This is just terrible!! How dare that girl be so mean, and pick on someone as innocent and unassuming as your daughter??
I think you've done well by heading to the principal. Hopefully that will help. Its probably also time to have a big "talk" w/ your daughter too, even if you've already had one. If you feel like this might start to put pressure on her, she could probably use the open door to bring issues home to you. Might not be a bad idea to involve the ex-DH too. It might help to get a man's opinion on the whole sex thing... Of course, that depends on your and her relationship w/ him which I don't know about.

We've had several "talks". She has absolutely NO interest in anything having to do with sex--not even kissing!! I have told her that if anyone ever tries to do anything with her, she should tell them no and then tell either the teacher or counselor AND me. We have a really good communication--she basically tells me everything! The ex, well, lets just say that his opinions tend to be VERY different from mine, and often not what I would want my kids to do.

Its hard to offer too much specific advice since I don't know all about your DDs situation. You've mentioned the "IQ," but, honestly, I don't put much stock in those kinds of numbers.

Me either. I mentioned it more as a reference point. She really IS at the bottom of the class, meaning ROCK bottom. She's in 6th grade, doing 4th grade math. Her latest test grade in social studies was a 15. (out of 100) You get the idea... As far as IQ tests, they say DS is "average", at about 98 or so. HA!!! This kid is WAY smarter than I am, and I know my IQ is MUCH higher than 98. So no, I don't put much stock in them either!
Also, you mentioned the special classes, but educational and social development are such totally diff't things. Would DD be able to carry-off that kind of "I don't care, so why should you?" attitude w/ her classmates? That tends to be the best remedy for these bratty little situations. I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt (its gotten me into a LOT of bad situations being so trusting though) but, I have to imagine that this little "witch" has a lot of issues of her own and is just looking for someone "weaker" (in the social hierarchy, not trying to comment on DD) to pick on and feel powerful and important. See if DD can muster a "Don't you have anything better to do?" kind of attitude. The novelty might just wear off.

She is oh-so-sensitive. Imagine a 7 year old going through this--that's about how she is. We've talked many times about things she could say, but she can't remember them long enough to say them!! I told her to look the kid straight in the eye, point her finger at her, and in her biggest voice, say "cut it out!!!! Get out of my face!!" If nothing else, it will make anyone nearby aware that there is something going on, and the witch won't be able to bully her on the QT!!

I too was bullied and picked on a little here and there. (I was VERY quiet, got good grades and was an all around nerd.) I didn't make very many enemies b/c I kept to myself, but I didn't have a lot of friends either. I HATED Jr. High and didn't start finding my own level of confidence until part way thru High school. It wasn't until college that I finally realized that I didn't care what other people thought, and I was better off seeking out those who DID appreciate me than worrying about those who didn't.

WOW!!! I'm impressed!! it took me 40 years to figure that out!!

Gosh, these stories make me worry so much about when my kiddies get older. That age was always so tough anyway, and w/ as advanced as kids are now, it just seems to be worse and worse. And, instead of just hurt feelings, you have to worry about physical stuff too. I have a feeling I'm going to have a lot of "grant me the serenity" and "give me strength" kind of days! for DD, and I hope that the "witch" finds something better to do w/ her time than pick on some innocent little thing.

Thanks!



Sorry to hear you were picked on too! (see above about some of my stuff). I used to have one girl that would constantly steal my lunch money out of my desk and pick on me in the hall. I got so upset for a while, then I finally confronted her, and then proceeded to ignore everything she said... good or bad. It got worse for a while b/c it drove her crazy, but she eventually gave up. That taught me a lot. That, when it comes to bullies, its usually much more about how they are feeling than about how they feel about you. "What doesn't kill me...", right?


I like that. Maybe DD could "get in her face", and then just ignore her from there on.

Not sure about the flap yet. I will play with the bag over the weekend to see what I can get into it. So far I can fit my Passporter into the big compartment (room to spare) with a 16 oz bottle of Dasani in each mesh bottle holder. I tried a 22oz water bottle that I bought from Walmart in each pocket but it pushed into the main compartment and made it hard to get the Passporter in and out. The front flap does tri-fold. If you have the bag on across your body, you would open the top flap up toward you( there is no storage in that flap) and the next flap opens down toward the floor with a mesh pocket that has a zipper closure (the zipper is normal and placed so stuff won't fall out when you open it). Now you are at the main part of the Tri-fold. This has 3 storage pockets. The back pocket is the biggest. You could fit CD sized object in there. The next two pockets are side by side (think the same size as the other pocket but stiched in half and a little shorter). One of the pockets is lines with felt so you can slide your glasses into it and the other is just the same fabric as the bag. In between the two pockets is a loop for a pen. There is also a key ring for your keys in the tri-fold.

I know I didn't really answer your question about if the Tri-fold was a PIA but I thought you might like a description since you can't see it in the pictures that I linked to.

I will let you know when I am able to really put it to use.

WOW!!! Thanks for the info!! I think I got a good visual from your description. I may order the bag and see how I like it. If it doesn't seem right, I can always return it...

 

[lighttech]

The birkenstocks are gonna kill me financially, but by golly she is the bet Mom ever and she deserves to have fun without her feet hurting. She hates to shop so I know she won't do it herself.

See yall later.

I try to avoid touting where I work... I don't want to sound like an add... but we have some good deals on birkenstock sometimes at QVC. So, if you haven't left yet... check out qvc.com

Also, if you have one in the area, I've seen them occasionally at Sams Club for VERY good prices.

Here's the link to the QVC website-
http://www.qvc.com/cgen/render.aspx?qp=class%7c6433&plpb=G|3|24|1|1

And, the nice thing is that they have a 30 day money back guarantee, so if she doesn't like them, you've got a month to send them back. (you'll lose the shipping, but that's it.)

 

[lighttech]

WOW!!! Thanks for the info!! I think I got a good visual from your description. I may order the bag and see how I like it. If it doesn't seem right, I can always return it...

For some reason, this only took the last part of your post...

Anyway,
That does seem tough. I don't personally think kids are emotionally equipped enough to deal w/ half (actually less) of what they are presented w/ at that age. If DD is behind the curve, its got to be even tougher. But, its great that you guys communicate and she can come to you. That will take you miles. And, even if the energy is a bit misplaced... how sweet of DS to want to protect her.

Bottom line. Kids are cruel. Especially girls. I don't know why, but there just seems to be so much angst and aggression at that age.

As for not caring what others think... I said I STARTED to figure it out in college... Not that I always followed my own good advice!!

Good luck. With a caring mom and a well-meaning brother... and hopefully a principal looking out for her... I'm sure she'll make it through.

 

[lighttech]

Looks like I'm all alone today! Just got home from work, and DS and DH are on their way back from DHs Grandmothers house, so I have a few minutes of total quiet. Thought I'd stop by here real quick..

DH will probably take over laptop when he gets home, so I suppose I'm just saying "'Night all!"

I never know if I'll get on over the "weekend" (remember, my work week is odd) but I'll catch up w/ y'all sometime... and, no, I'm not poking fun at anyone. I have no idea where I picked up y'all being that I'm a northern girl, but its found its way into my vocabulary.

 

[Pikester]

Good Evening!

I am enjoying the quiet of a somewhat empty house. The DH has gone to a Red Sox game. He and 3 of his friends unexpectedly came into tickets for tonights game for seats right behind the Red Sox's Dugout!

DS10 has gone to spend the night at his GG's (my Mom) house and DS7 is upstairs sound asleep.

My Mom came over for a little while and we discussed the plans for our December 2008 Disney trip. My Mom and Dad are flying down and we (DH, Me, DS10, DS7) are driving. We were going over the ADRs and talking about Pop Century. I can't believe it is almost time to make ressies! I plan on making sure that I don't have to work on June 11th so I can spend my morning on the phone hopefully getting the ADRs that I want.

Here's some smilies I found.

 

[Pikester]

I love it!!! I think it will be perfect. I think I am going to order one. I am in to bright colors, so I think I am going to go with the Berry. What do you think?


Yay you on your first multi quote!!!!!!!

I think the Berry color would be great. One of my fav colors is grn which is why I ordered the grn one. The did have chocolate and I couldn't decided between that and the grn. When I went back to place my order and decide once and for all which color I wanted the chocolate was SOLD OUT!

 

[whgrn]

Looks like I'm all alone today! Just got home from work, and DS and DH are on their way back from DHs Grandmothers house, so I have a few minutes of total quiet. Thought I'd stop by here real quick..

DH will probably take over laptop when he gets home, so I suppose I'm just saying "'Night all!"

I never know if I'll get on over the "weekend" (remember, my work week is odd) but I'll catch up w/ y'all sometime... and, no, I'm not poking fun at anyone. I have no idea where I picked up y'all being that I'm a northern girl, but its found its way into my vocabulary.

I had the day to myself too--the kids were with the ex until about 45 minutes ago, now they are in bed. I FINALLY got caught up on my TV watching--all the stuff I haven't watched since forever. Over the course of this week, I've watched 8 or 9 Boston Legals, 5 Desperate Housewives, and 9 Law & Order SVUs. So now I'm all ready for all the season finales!!

Lighttech, it's not just you! I've lived in NJ my entire life, and I've said y'all since I was 8. We had neighbors who moved to NJ from Winston-Salem, NC. They said y'all all the time, of course, and it just made so much sense to me: you=1 person, y'all=more than 1 person. Better than "youse" like in NY, or "yuns" like in Pittsburgh!!

Night y'all!!

 

[kimluvswdw]

Hello everyone, my name is Kim and I was invited to your thread by Pepperw23. She told me that everyone was the nicest bunch of people here.

I post alot on the community board, camping board, and the theme park board. I am always looking for new and interesting threads to read and post on. I have read through alot of the thread and everyone seems very nice.


I just wanted to say hello and to thank Pepperw23 for the invitation.


Kim

 

[Pikester]

 

[whgrn]

Welcome Kim!!

 

[Pikester]

Ok, I have a question. How many times or how long do I have to post on this thread before I am allowed to have one of these

in my siggie?

 

[MagiKitty]

Good Sunday everyone!

Kim! So good to meet you. Hope you decide to stay.

Pikester...you're more than welcome to have a TK banner! Now, if I can only figure out how to get it to you....give me some time. It took me ages to get it myself!

Ok, guys, my day has been ruined. My SIL informed me today that my father's first wife and my older sister have decided to come to NY for my niece and nephew's high school graduation. It is putting it nicely to say that we do not get along. Both of them are openly hostile to my mother, my sister, and I. My older sister will only see my father alone. The first wife is a drama queen and is sure to cause a scene. I'm heartbroken, I love my twins so much and am so happy to see them graduate. But I can't risk the incident if the two sides of the family show up at graduation, and can't take anything away from the day from my twins. Its a mean, spiteful act on their part. They're the kind of people who are only there for the triumphs, who enjoy the good times. My nephew told me he'd rather have us there, but I told him not to worry about it. We'll have out own celebration at another time.

I'm trying to be a nice person and stay positive for my eldest brother and his family. He's in an awkward situation; it is his mother also. I do kinda wish he'd grow a set and do the right thing, stand up for my mother and father. After all, we're the ones who have been there for each other all these years. His mother only comes around when she wants something. My SIL and even the kids are dreading this visit, and I can't help at all except step back and let them enjoy as much as they can. I haven't told my own mother yet, I'm dreading it. The twins are the first grandchildren to graduate from high school, and essentially she is being forced out. She's already taken the day off from work, this is going to get ugly.

Thanks for letting me vent. I just want to scream I"m so mad about it all. But I have to put on a brave face for the twins who already feel so bad. Grr...some people are so selfish. I wish I could say that for the kids' sake we could all put on a brave face and attend the graduation together. But my SIL said that basically the mother said there is no way for all of us to be in the same room together. Is it wrong to want to kick an old nasty woman?

 

[lighttech]

Hello everyone, my name is Kim and I was invited to your thread by Pepperw23. She told me that everyone was the nicest bunch of people here.

I post alot on the community board, camping board, and the theme park board. I am always looking for new and interesting threads to read and post on. I have read through alot of the thread and everyone seems very nice.


I just wanted to say hello and to thank Pepperw23 for the invitation.


Kim

Welcome aboard!!
(and thanks for the compliments Pepper... you really shouldn't mislead people like that though... )