Won't the black garter work?
And hairwise, it would have to be an up-do??
I'm not sure... I'd rather have the nude, since I have a little bit of OCD and would prefer it match

The problem with the stockings is that 90% of the places I've found that have plus size stockings have the ones that are "one size fits most" and I'm on the high end of it, so they don't fit properly. I'd prefer to get some that fit properly, so I'm hoping I can find some from Torrid or Lane Bryant, maybe the place I'm ordering the crinoline from.
This is the place I'm getting the crinoline from.
As for my hair, I have absolutely no clue. I'm thinking about just leaving it down, having a friend curl it, and putting a flower in it. I haven't decided yet.
Definitely an up-do...
Depends on the stockings on if the black garter will or won't work.

I'm not good at doing my hair, so I'm probably just going to ask someone to do it for me.
Agreed. I'm going to wait and see what I end up buying before I decide if I need to get a nude garter belt as well.
This is what I'm thinking about for my hair. I'm not really a big fan of updos.