Thinking about moving east....

michellelovesthemous

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my 72 year old mum wants to pack up the home she has lived in for or 49 years in WA and move to the Orlando area as my dd20 wants to be an animator and work for Disney starting in the parks and work her way up. My DD wants us all to move as everyone is disenchanted with WA. This means I leave my job after 19years at 48 help her sell, donate, shred etc then pack up my childhood home and sell it. Looking for advice as she has been looking at real estate in the Orlando area, we do WDW for 2-3 weeks every year in August and we enjoy the heat and humidity........sick ain’t it?! :goodvibes I guess I am looking for any advice as to where to begin this process especially with the how would we find property from 2800 miles away?! Any suggestions and or advice on this process will be much appreciated this is approximately 18-24 months out. We come back to WDW for our annual holiday in a few weeks too.:cool1::cool1:
 
You put it out there so I’m commenting.... Does your daughter have a position with Disney yet? I would never uproot an entire family, give up a long term job, get rid of a family home, move a 72 yo woman so a 20 year old can work in some entry level job in the parks. Plus from what I can see, Disney animation jobs are all located in Burbank, CA.
 
I have 3 kids that I love very much, but there is no way I would give up my job and home on one of their dreams. My DS works in Jacksonville with several kids that have gone to college and have degrees and left their animation jobs. I think everyone needs to investigate this before anyone makes a move. DS didn’t move until he had a job lined up with a start date.
 
I have 3 kids that I love very much, but there is no way I would give up my job and home on one of their dreams. My DS works in Jacksonville with several kids that have gone to college and have degrees and left their animation jobs. I think everyone needs to investigate this before anyone makes a move. DS didn’t move until he had a job lined up with a start date.

I have 2 kids, but same. No way would we all move
 

I agree, this needs a lot more thought and research before you make any plans. As others have said, I don't think any of Disney's animation work is done in FL, and also, there's no way to work your way up from an entry-level theme park job to an animator position in their film studios.

Have a look at the Disney Animation Studios Careers site to see what kinds of positions they're hiring for, and what the qualifications are for those positions. From my quick scan of the positions, it looks like she'd be better off moving to LA and getting some experience in the film and TV industry than working in a theme park in Florida.
 
If EVERYONE is honestly disenchanted with living in WA, then go for it.

Change can sometimes be scary and moving is daunting.
 
I agree, this needs a lot more thought and research before you make any plans. As others have said, I don't think any of Disney's animation work is done in FL, and also, there's no way to work your way up from an entry-level theme park job to an animator position in their film studios.

Have a look at the Disney Animation Studios Careers site to see what kinds of positions they're hiring for, and what the qualifications are for those positions. From my quick scan of the positions, it looks like she'd be better off moving to LA and getting some experience in the film and TV industry than working in a theme park in Florida.
:sad2: OP - don't quit your day job or sell the farm until your daughter learns A LOT more about the job she wants to pursue. Based on what you've said, she has absolutely no idea what she's doing. Why would you even consider moving your whole family under these circumstances?
 
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OP here - Mum has been looking at real estate there for a few months. A bit of backstory we are the extent of our family my Mum, my daughter and myself. No one in Wa but a few gravestones here. My concern in regards to work comes down to medical insurance alot has changed there too. My family is small and broken but good....yeah good. :stitch: It is kind of exciting to do something impossible like this once I can get past the raw terror. I guess I am looking for thoughts from folks that may have done a long-distance move and how they did it? And I do agree she needs to look into it a lot more in regards to her possible future.
Thank you to all who have already shared their thoughts/opinions.
 
OP here - Mum has been looking at real estate there for a few months. A bit of backstory we are the extent of our family my Mum, my daughter and myself. No one in Wa but a few gravestones here. My concern in regards to work comes down to medical insurance alot has changed there too. My family is small and broken but good....yeah good. :stitch: It is kind of exciting to do something impossible like this once I can get past the raw terror. I guess I am looking for thoughts from folks that may have done a long-distance move and how they did it? And I do agree she needs to look into it a lot more in regards to her possible future.
Thank you to all who have already shared their thoughts/opinions.

Are you sure that your mother really wants to sell her house and move to the other side of the country or are you and your daughter heavily influencing her decision? Is this your mother's house that you want to sell to finance your daughter's entry level dream of working for Disney? None of this passes the initial sniff test to me.

You yourself are calling this an impossible move. Please for the love and respect of your mother, make sure you and your daughter have jobs waiting before you make such an impulsive decision. There is nothing wrong with moving when you have a secure job waiting for you otherwise I suggest leaving you mother and her house out of your fantasy move.
 
OP here - Mum has been looking at real estate there for a few months. A bit of backstory we are the extent of our family my Mum, my daughter and myself. No one in Wa but a few gravestones here. My concern in regards to work comes down to medical insurance alot has changed there too. My family is small and broken but good....yeah good. :stitch: It is kind of exciting to do something impossible like this once I can get past the raw terror. I guess I am looking for thoughts from folks that may have done a long-distance move and how they did it? And I do agree she needs to look into it a lot more in regards to her possible future.
Thank you to all who have already shared their thoughts/opinions.
I have made 2 very long distance moves. One to another country. I have had a place in Orlando for 35 years. I'm sitting in downtown Orlando right now, just got back from my other place and can't wait to go back to my other place in a few weeks. Do yourself a favor and don't move to Orlando.
 
Don't move without a job in hand. And you need a good paying job to afford Orlando. Rents are high.

This times a thousand.

I can tell from your posts that you're caught up in the idea of an adventure, and the pixie dust is clouding your vision a bit. Heck, we all get caught up in that from time to time. Not to be alarmist, but there are a lot of people who moved to Orlando with pixie dust in their eyes who crashed and burned financially.

Absolutely, positively, research the cost of housing and rents thoroughly, and do not move until you've accepted a job offer that will cover your family's financial needs. Your daughter also needs to research what her pay will be as an entry-level theme park employee, and plan accordingly.

You can still have the adventure. But don't just jump off the cliff. Research it, think it through, plan it.
 
OP here - Mum has been looking at real estate there for a few months. A bit of backstory we are the extent of our family my Mum, my daughter and myself. No one in Wa but a few gravestones here. My concern in regards to work comes down to medical insurance alot has changed there too. My family is small and broken but good....yeah good. :stitch: It is kind of exciting to do something impossible like this once I can get past the raw terror. I guess I am looking for thoughts from folks that may have done a long-distance move and how they did it? And I do agree she needs to look into it a lot more in regards to her possible future.
Thank you to all who have already shared their thoughts/opinions.

I will first say that I agree with all of the previous posters that this plan does not sound well thought out in the slightest. I will also give a brief experience of our two large moves especially the logistics of our lodging.

Both moves involved selling our house at the time and moving to a different state and setting up our lives again. Both of these were done for jobs.

The first was because my job was relocated. My company 100% paid for all of our moving expenses (including full service movers) and my husband was able to keep his job as long as he was wiling to travel. We sold our house before we moved and did a rent back to stay in it until the day we had to leave. We drove with our dog to our new state and stayed in a 2 bedroom apartment with most of our things still in boxes until we were able to close on the house we were building, which of course took much longer than anticipated and our month to month lease was quite expensive as they weren't very common in the area so people charged a premium. Of course when we finally were able to move into our house we had to hire another set of movers on our own to get our things from the apartment to the house.

Our second move was for my husband's job as he was offered his dream job in CA, thankfully my job allowed me to keep my position traveling and doing some remote work. His new company also paid for all of our moving expenses, including the mortgage on our house until it sold (took about 2 months but we didn't put it on the market until we were out of it this time as living in a house that is being shown was NOT for me) and paid for a corporate apartment for us for 6 months and storage for all of our stuff while we were in that corporate apartment. We drove with our dog again to our new state and got an apartment for another 6 months or so (on our own) after our corporate lease was up (we kept our stuff in a storage unit at our new apartment complex this time) and then purchased our house and moved in, which as I am sure you can guess involved more money and movers.

All of this to say that even though we were given every single advantage possible thanks to our companies footing so much of the expenses it was still difficult and expensive. There are so many fees for things that you don't think about, and paperwork and things that come up that you don't anticipate even after doing it once like having to go to Target to buy basic supplies to tide you over in your temporary living situation even though you have all of these things packed away in boxes in the room next you, you just don't know which box it is in, or how you would ever get to that box even if it was flashing neon in the room! Both moves were great opportunities, and I would do them all over again, but not unless we at least each knew that we had good employment at the new destination.

One of the people I went to college with is an animator at Disney (he animates water or at least did the last time I spoke with him) he has a degree in engineering with a concentration in hydrodynamics as far as I can remember. No one goes from working in the parks to being an animator, it is a very specialized skill set with a variety of different degree options to get you there depending on the type of animation that you want to do.

Make sure everyone does their research and knows what they are getting into!
 
You put it out there so I’m commenting.... Does your daughter have a position with Disney yet? I would never uproot an entire family, give up a long term job, get rid of a family home, move a 72 yo woman so a 20 year old can work in some entry level job in the parks. Plus from what I can see, Disney animation jobs are all located in Burbank, CA.

This.

The jobs are not in Orlando. She needs to be looking at Burbank.
 
What kind of college degree does your daughter have? Do you have any chance of a pension with your current job or a possible transfer with your current job? We just made a move to SW Florida from Louisiana last July since we were both retired, both with a pension, both with Social Security and a lot of money in our retirement fund. Our move cost us about $17,000 to move our belongings. Our new house was much more expensive than our old so the proceeds from the sale of the old house didn't cover the money we had to put down. Our car insurance is a lot cheaper, but our home owners insurance is a lot more as is our property taxes. Our flood insurance is less. We both have medical insurance through my husband's former employer and the cost is deducted from his pension. We also both have Medicare Part A. Since we arrived, we have been through three Tropical Storms that only had tons of rain and some wind and Hurricane Irma which did damage to our roof, soffits and gutters and destroyed our pool cage (which is not covered on our home owner's insurance, the rest was less our deductible). We've replaced our pool heater and AC unit, plus the refrigerator. stove and clothes dryer. It is not cheap to live in Florida. Our electric bill (and we keep the AC at 78 degrees) runs us from $150 to $190 a month. Our water bill is almost as high. Between me and my dog, our medications run us about $300 per month. In the area where we live, the median price for a house is more than what we ultimately paid for our house here. It's a lot more than what we paid for our house.

Your mom is not young. You are also getting older and could have a hard time getting a new job. Your daughter is dreaming with pixie dust in her eyes. None of you have any idea of what you are getting into. Do not go into this without serious considerations of what you would do if none of you find a job. Florida already has enough people living on welfare and Medicaid.

One more thing, my son did the College Program and a Professional internship with Disney working in Horticulture after he graduated. He was hired by Disney full time as a Gardener in the Horticulture Dept in the MK. He shared an apartment with two other CMs and paid around $900 a month for his share (three bedroom apartment). He was totally disenchanted with Disney (and the low pay even with a degree), quit his job there and has returned to school to get a Masters in Landscape Architecture.
 
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OP here - Mum has been looking at real estate there for a few months. A bit of backstory we are the extent of our family my Mum, my daughter and myself. No one in Wa but a few gravestones here. My concern in regards to work comes down to medical insurance alot has changed there too. My family is small and broken but good....yeah good. :stitch:

While I applaud your wanting to keep your family together. Please be sure that if the three of you end up in FL, then your daughter later changes her mind and realizes her life's passion and career is instead in the mountains of Colorado, that you keep reiterating she should be free to go where ever her life takes her. 20 year olds should have the freedom to explore many different paths and locations, make plenty of mistakes, change their minds, go in many different directions, without the burden and guilt that she moved her mom & grandma to a place that she no longer wants to be in, and she shouldn't leave them to pursue her alternate dreams, as they had moved to FL to be with her. :(
 
While your at Disney you could visit a 55 plus place about 10 min. from Disney called K. Hovnanian
Google k. Hovnanian Four Seasons Orlando.
It looks beautiful!

It’s hard when our only children get out of college & move away but we have to let them go where they can explore what makes them happy, and let their lives unfold as they will.

I never thought I’d live in a different state than my only son but I do. When he graduated undergrad, he was accepted into Stanford for post grad... Stanford has a school in JAPAN, he went there for 3 years while I lived in Cape Cod, MA. We visited him often in Japan & he came home twice during those 3 years for a month’s vacation break.
He then lived in California, finishing up grad school. During this time he married.& they had a baby 13 months later.I moved to CA eventually to be closer to them. I had a job before I left tho. 2 years later he & his again pregnant wife who he met in Japan, & my 2 yo grandson moved to Austin for his promotion... they are still there & have 3 children now.

DH & I are moving to Florida within 2 years from California.
My son could move back to CA for his job or someplace else or he could stay in Austin because I’m sure he will be offered another promotion...
We are only a plane ride away no matter where our children live, so we really have to move someplace that is beneficial for us at this point in our lives. Your daughter could stay in Florida or she could move anywhere her life & career take her.
I’m happy I moved to CA I met my now husband of 2 years here! We just never know where our paths will take us!
 
It looks like you all do want to move out of WA, so I think you need to do more research on where the best job opportunities will be for you and your daughter. It may be some state other than FL. I agree with all those above who said you need to have jobs lined up before you move.
 
I moved cross country four times (MN to CA, CA to NJ, NJ to CA, CA to MN) in the last 30 years, each time with a JOB in hand. And, you know what? It was still stressful as all hell. My husband and I have a solid marriage, and each time, it was a test of that solidness. LOL. We survived. But, I can't imagine doing that kind of move without a job in hand to pay all the expected expenses. It would just magnify the situation x 1000.
 
It might not be want you to want hear, but I agree with all the previous posters. My dd also did the CP program. She thought she wanted to get full-time there and move down there. She did wake up from it all. I told her she can't survive on their wages but she can try and go for it. I would have backed her 100% but I would not have made the move for her. They are young, they change their mind, things happen. Let her venture out on he own with your help and support. Down the line, near future, if it all works out, you and your mom can always make the move. I would not risk my job, security, etc. for something that might be temporary or might not work out.

Good luck with your decision. Keep us posted!!!
 





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