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So thankful that Allison's flight went well and that Mrythes' dad was able to find her. That was definitely a prayer answered and so sweet of him.
I don't blame you for not wanting to post that your empty house will be empty on the internet. I have never put our vacations on Facebook or anything until we are home. Lots of people do but it just seems a little unsafe to me.
Hang in there! She will be home before you know it and she with family so you know shes in good hands! Have a great day!
Thank you - it was such a relief to have him there!
Yes - safety first... It's not so much that our house will be empty, but it's our exact locations - especially when we are traveling.

Thank you - she is having a good time and it's so much fun seeing her spend time with family... I admit I am a bit jealous - but it warms my heart.
Same to you!

How great that Allison's flight went well and that Myrthe's dad was able to meet Allison before customs.
I hope the Jetlag doesn't bother her too much. It's always more difficult traveling from the west to the east than the other way around.
I can't wait to hear about all the stuff Allison is going to experience.
Yes - it was such a relief to me!
I am not sure how that part is going for her? I know she made it to 2pm our time yesterday - then slept for 6 hours... and I know she was awake at 10pm their time... So, I am not sure if she went back to bed or not? I sure hope so. I did find, when we flew over there - it was very difficult for all of us the first few days, but coming home was very easy - I don't remember struggling much at all.
Me too - I cannot wait. I know she is just trying to adjust right now.
I'm glad Allison made it safely to Myrthe and Brian's house. She looks so happy to be there. It really worked out well that her dad was there to meet Allison. There's nothing like seeing a familiar face when you get off the plane. I bet you are so relieved that Allison made it over there in one piece. I totally understand not telling exact travel days. I do the same thing. My family and friends know them but I dons't put it on the internet.
Today I'm going to my daughters for a cookout. She has one every year around her birthday. It should be fun. My niece will be thee along with most of her husband's family and some of our friends including the one's I visited at the campgrounds a couple weeks ago.
Have a great weekend.
Liz
Thank you - yes is she very excited to be there and to be with them. And it couldn't have worked out more perfectly at the airport... I am still so terrified to have her so far away from home - but I know there is no one else I'd trust more than them, so it's OK.

I am glad that all of you understand... Maybe it's just me, but I feel safer if people don't always know where I am... Which is why I am always pretty vague about what I am going to be doing any particular day - but I talk lots about the day before.

I hope you had a great time at the cook out! It sounds like a lot of fun!
Totally tearing up reading this! So glad she had an uneventful trip and so excited for her adventures. I'm sure it really does help knowing that she is with family. Hang in there mama! Now you can start the countdown until she comes home!!
Thank you - it was very emotional, but I am starting to feel like I am semi-normal again. I knew, once she was through the traveling and with family - I would be OK. I still miss her like crazy, but the whole "travel anxiety" for her is gone, and that's a big relief to me.
Oh yes - I put a count down on my phone the day before she left.

So glad she made it safe.
Thank you - me too - it was such a relief!
Glad she made it safe!!
Thank you - I am so relieved, as well.

Totally tearing up reading this! I'm glad she made it safely. I love the 9 3/4 luggage tag. So cute!!
Thank you - it's been a huge relief to have the travel portion over. Hehehe... Yes - she is my Harry Potter girl, through and through... It would be super cool if she would be able to see where they filmed it, while she was over there... But I don't think that is in her itinerary at all?

So glad Alli made it safely to the other side of the world! What a wonderful adventure ahead!
Thank you for the info on FQ. I always plan and then make one million changes before a trip and I'm sure this one will be no different!
Thank you - I am anxious to hear all about it!
I know - LOL - I do the same thing. I am not sure I will ever get to stay at FQ again, at least not for several years - but it is my favorite resort and we have so many happy memories there.
I've got tears for you too. My 11 year old will be going to Washington DC next summer for 3 days and I'm scared/happy for him. I can't imagine how hard it would be to send one of my kids around the world for 3 months!!! You're a strong mother but it's awesome that you can trust your kids enough to let them do this. Looking forward to reading about A's adventures!
I totally understand - any time they travel, it's anxiety for me... Is he going with a school trip? DC is always somewhere I've wanted to go - and we always wanted to take the girls there, but we never made it when they were young... Maybe when we have grands?

It's not easy having her so far away - but she is with family, and it's family that is VERY experienced in traveling and family I trust - so I am doing much better with it than I even hoped I would.

Me too - I cannot wait until she is recovered from traveling and starts exploring a little bit.
It must have been a great relief to know that Allison was met at the airport by Myrthe's dad. That is the one part of the journey that I would have been nervous about.
I think you mean that you are almost double digits away from your October trip, not single. We are 98 days away from our October trip.
Yes - it was a huge relief... It was a very anxious 30 minutes for me, while it was being coordinated, but such a relief that he was able to meet her. She said that going through customs wasn't even a huge deal at all - the customs person didn't even talk to her, just stamped her book and let her in... I remember when we went - we had lots of questions to answer... And we were entering as a family, with children... I guess maybe they get single people all the time, just traveling around the world?

Hehehehe... Yes- thank you for the catch... Double digits.

Glad she arrived safely. I remember the first time my oldest flew by herself, I had the FlightView app opened every 15 minutes to see her progress.
Thank you - stalking her flight was definitely so much easier on me than just guessing... It's so nice that we have the ability of doing that now... Then being able to chat with her in-flight too... It made the whole 8 hours so much easier on this momma.

Glad to hear Allison's trip was uneventful and she was met by family as soon as she got off the plane. She will have a wonderful adventure over the next 3 months!
I was telling Charlie about Allison's trip and how hard it was for you and he asked me if you were the "bag lady".....
Thank you - it was such a relief to me! I hope so - I cannot wait to hear all about it!
Hehehehe... I guess that's me. LOL Hi Charlie!

As the mom of four kids with my oldest being a senior this year, I feel your pain. The idea of my family separated gives me a lot of anxiety. This time next year I am going to be a hot mess. What an amazing opportunity for A! She is going to grow so much from this experience, and will be a better person because of it. Hang in there, D!
Yes - I think that's the hardest for me too... I look outside and see my car there, and I tell myself that everyone is home... And then I remember, my house is a bit smaller now. But I am doing OK with it - really I am. I am a little shocked that I am doing as well as I am - yes it's different and a bit strange, but so far, it's not nearly as bad as I thought it would be. Granted, due to modern technology - I am able to video chat with her, so I can see her and talk to her every day... And we still text back and forth - so it's kind of like she is still here, but not really. If that makes any sense. What will get hard for me - is when she gets busy and we won't communicate as often... I am so close to both of my girls - so to not have that constant communication will be very different for me, and very hard to adjust to. Hang in there... It will all be OK - I just keep telling myself that this is how it's supposed to be.

I am so glad Allison had a safe flight and she has finally started her adventure!
I hope you sleep a little better tonight...
Thank you, me too... It's so exciting to see her exploring the world - but right now, she is just doing a lot of sleeping and a lot of family time.

Thank you - I did, sort of... Lots of tossing and turning, but I'll be OK.

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So, yesterday was a pretty lazy day for me... I was able to video chat with Allison for a bit in the morning, that was nice. She was falling asleep just sitting there - she hadn't slept since the night before, and she is my child who can barely stay awake past 8pm - LOL, So I was pretty impressed that she made it as long as she did.

I did stalk her Snapchat yesterday and steal a few photos off of it for you all.



And the view from her bedroom...

I worked until noon yesterday - I was able to get a good portion caught up, I still have a ways to go though - so I will be putting in a half day today, as well.... Hopefully it's enough to get me through my upcoming crazy week.

Then, I had lunch and I took a 4 hour nap!

I cleaned the house for a while last night, and it felt good to get things in order again... After so many months of living in chaos, it's nice to have our living spaces back and looking great.
We had a nice dinner and we all sat up on our devices and watching TV last night... It was a good and relaxing night.
Today - like I said above, I will work in my sewing room for a few hours...
Then I think I am going to start on redoing our farmhouse table... I want to sand down the top and restain it - the same color, or as close as I can, to our counter tops, and then I plan to paint the legs white... I have not decided what color I am painting the chairs yet? I can either do them white or black... Or I could do them a fun color too? I just don't know on those at all yet. But I figure I can get the table done and work on the chairs as I go? So, that's on my list for today.

I need to start thinking about tackling the remaining of the stairs too, but I think I am going to wait a few weeks on that.

I do have pictures for you all too... From last weekend and V's Showcase and Allison's grad party. As I said - I didn't take any pictures, but my FIL had a few on his camera - I didn't realize he had emailed these to me that same night, and I just found them in my email last night... In the pictures with V - you will see one of her projects on the computer screen in the background... It was a photo she took and edited. Also - you can see V's new hair really well in these pictures too - I think it looks great!
Us with Victoria
My foster parents with Victoria
Josh's Dad and step-mom with Victoria
Josh's Dad and step-mom with Allison
Us with Allison

My foster parents with Victoria

Josh's Dad and step-mom with Victoria

Josh's Dad and step-mom with Allison

Us with Allison

I will say - I am not happy with the above photo of us with Allison... Whoa! Yes - my crappy eating over the last few months has taken it's toll... I know the stripes don't help much - but still... Talk about motivation to get myself back on track.


I hope you all have a wonderful Sunday! Sending prayers and pixie dust out to all of you!

D~
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