Yes, because I feel the same way. I love Disney, but I don't want my wedding to resemble a 7 year old's birthday party. But you know, I think Disney is really a pretty class act, so I am not sure that is really a valid concern. (Talking to myself, here. ---it's a bad habit.)
I don't really have a "theme". Is 'nice' a theme? I just lack imagination. My fiance says he thinks the theme should be "Pirates and Bankruptcy Court" but he is such a cynic.
I asked him what colors would go with that, and he says, "I don't know, but I think the announcements should be printed in red ink."
I say, "Honey, isn't this just..." and before I can finish the sentence he says, "Uh huh. How much?"
My advice is to just go with the colors you love, and think about what you and your fiance love most--what is meaningful to you.
All the themes I have read on here are really cool ideas, though.
"Flip-flops and Fairy Tales" just sounds so much more romantic than "Pirates and Bankruptcy Court."