Barca33Runner
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Really didn't know where to post this because I need to write it down (I think) for it to be real ... and I didn't want to post it independently to draw attention, but I'm also not participating in an upcoming race weekend so I didn't feel like that was a place to post either, so I'm sorry @LSUlakes for bogging down your thread and posting it here.
Anyway.
My Dad passed away very suddenly and completely unexpectedly today - he was actually in Peru on a trip with my little brother to celebrate my brother's birthday (which was yesterday). He was 65.
As if losing a parent under any circumstance wasn't tough enough - losing a parent in a foreign country is, just, well ... surreal.
I leave early in the morning for Orlando and will be there for the foreseeable future to help my Mom. I plan to come out and spectate the 10K and Half of Princess, so if you're running Princess let me know. Maybe I'll host a meet-up.
So ... for me, if you don't mind - tell everybody in your life today that you love them, or that you appreciate them, or just that they mean something to you ...even if you're mad at them! Cherish every step you take from the next step forward. Think of those that can't, won't or will never again do whatever you set out to do today. And say "eff it" every chance you get, because you only live one life and there's no overtime. And don't make this a one-time thing - make it an all-the-time thing.
I love each and every one of y'all, and each day I'm so proud and incredibly inspired by what you do.
So sorry to hear about your loss. My parents are around the same age and I consider myself very lucky that they are still around. Just thinking of the possibility of a situation like this leaves me gutted. I can’t imagine what the reality is like.
I wish I was running Princess Weekend so that I could offer my condolences in person. Your support on the Marathon course was incredibly important to me and I would’ve liked to have done whatever small part I could to help brighten your day and repay that kindness. In the absence of that I can only say that I will follow your advice and let all of my loved ones know how much they mean to me every chance I get and seize every opportunity that comes my way.
Prayers and hugs for you and your family.