NJlauren
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Tell him you want him to run faster and see how he likes it (sorry, I'm feeling zesty today)
But on a serious note: my first 5k was 42 minutes. I got down to where I am now gradually. And I don't always run my fastest every time. And my fastest will never win me any race so I try to keep all my goals very personal to me. It's great that he is encouraging you, but remind him that gradual change may be safest to prevent injury but also will keep you the most motivated to keep going. You don't want to feel like you've failed on a day where you should be celebrating what you are doing. Let's say you surprise yourself and finish in like 33 or 34...you want to feel happy about that. Hope that helps a little.
And this is why I do almost all of my runs by myself. I like having total control over my pace, walk breaks, etc.![]()
I think if he wants to motivate you, he should motivate you to run, not tell you how to do it. The amount of people who who think that run/walk is either not a choice, or it's because you don't want to run... Maybe that's a sensitive subject for me...
I probably would tell him to run by himself then. lol Maybe that's also why I'm not married...
Thank you! Appreciate all the support and input!
I have suggested you run your race I'll run mine.... I guess next week we will see what happens... I have no desire to push myself to hard and either get injured or be miserable and want to stop running. I want to run the race and have fun... We even got a babysiter so we could both run
