Dear Friends~~~
I just want to give everyone a

! I finally had a moment to go back and really read through the last 3-4 pages of posts and it sounds like a lot of us can use a

.
For those of you who are feeling lonely because your husband's work a lot, I know exactly how you feel and don't underestimate your feelings just because some people are going without their husband's for awhile. I have had a different mindset this last year and a half- I dealt with him being gone because I HAD TO- there was no option. But when DH was home and worked a lot of hours, we would fight a lot because I felt like I was getting NO reprieve ever. And then when he was home, he wanted his 'cave' time when I felt like he should be spending more time with us...sound familiar?
Joats, justhat, lissawynn, Val- I hope you are all feeling better by the time you check in again.
SL- Lucas looks like such the happy dude in his big boy carseat!
DisKim- Going to NC sounds like a great plan! I hope you & your DH will be able to come to a conclusion of whether it's somewhere you will both be happy.
Gems- sounds like Shelby is just getting older and maybe knows how to scream to get her way with you? Once they get to about 4-5 months, babies seem to really know what they want & start getting determined. Then again, hopefully it isn't an ear infection- watch for a fever...I just know my kids starting getting a little more stubborn at those ages and would start throwing a fit at naptime/bedtime.
lissawynn-

about the $500 Benihana-type bill! I LOVE that style of food, but we usually manage to get out for about $70 or so for DH, me and the two kids. Good luck with Jimmy's party! I'm having a homecoming party for DH on the 28th and so far only 40 of the 70 people have RSVPed. I just don't get what's so hard about making a 5 second phone call or email.
tkyes- glad your party went well! how's the ankle?
Hillary- how are you doing? I'm really feeling for you and your DH. I know what you mean about investing and life insurance. Both of our parents are quite well off, so I don't worry about that, but it has been a lesson to DH and I to have VERY good life insurance so that if something happened to one of us, the other could pay off all the bills incl the house so we didn't have to worry about working, daycare for the kids, etc. We need to step it up this decade with our investments- we both are vested in the state's retirement system, but we need to start diversifying again....
Well, our weekend did have some ups- a table of some sort of high rollers sat next to us at dinner on Saturday night. They were Seahawks fans and we were near the airport (so maybe they were flying home later???). The restaurant we were at was kinda high end, yet not fancy- like a local favorite. Anyway, they were 3 men, in their 40s & 50s and they were admiring our children and the fact that we were at this restaurant with our kids, not Denny's. DH said, "Well, we're kinda celebrating." And I said, "Yeah, we're celebrating two things" and DH said, "It's our wedding anniversary....and I just got back from Iraq about 48 hours ago." So they bought DH steak and lobster! Turned out one of the guys was the drummer for a band called Bad Company (??? rings a bell, but maybe I'm just hallucinating) and the other looked like a sports caster or something.
And an angel who lurks here gave me some tips on working with Expedia- I haven't had a chance to make the phone calls, but I really appreciate some of the folks here on the DIS! I hope her advice words and I get at least most of our $200 back.
While in Seattle we went in the Space Needle, walked around Pike's Market (which DS4 HATED- he doesn't like a lot of noise and crowds and got incredibly pouty), and had lunch at PF Changs, a first for us. DH took the kids out to dinner last night and I got a 2 hour nap (my first nap since Molly was about 6 weeks old!) and I ordered room service. I felt very luxurious. Also took a hot bath.
All in all, it was a nice weekend, and we're glad to have DH back. He was a bit tense for most of the weekend though- a combination of being extremely tired, the stupid ticket, not quite back into civilian reality yet....I'm hoping once he's home for good this weekend he can relax. I pick him up at the Oregon base (about 20 minutes from here) on Thursday morning.
