cabanafrau
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I had a completely different take on that scene.
I thought the dad was great. Finn was being a donkey's rear end. Kurt put a lot of time and effort into showing Finn that he wanted this arrangement to work by his decorating. Finn was deliberately hurting Kurt by calling the stuff "faggy", and kept on going, even after he saw how upset Kurt was. His father was making a point that just because he used those terms too when he was young, doesn't make it right. And that he thought Finn would be more sensitive to these issues, since he was in glee club.
It was directly because of this scene that Finn was able to stand up to the football goons, even in his red shower curtain "dress", and get them to leave Kurt alone.
I had a different spin on the same incident . . .
Finn has been really struggling to come to grips w/ all of the changes in his life: soon to be dad, no longer soon to be dad, constant struggle missing his dad, struggle w/ desire to be in glee club and football, mom "replaces" his dad & within no time at all they're moving in together, suddenly to share room w/ Kurt -- which won't help social issues w/ football team, etc.
We've been seeing Kurt struggling at his dad's apparent (in Kurt's eyes), rush to fill the role of man's man, macho, sports nut son & how that hurt. Kurt has also been crushing on Finn.
Kurt decided to welcome Finn to their home w/ his redecoration. Unfortunately, it really doesn't suit Finn at all -- which Kurt truthfully knows if you asked him that directly. The over the top, completely off-base decor was what pushed Finn over the edge. To him, living there in that decor said, yeah, Kurt & I are living together, which wouldn't be a good thing socially in his football life. I think it also was kind of for him a rejection of who his dad was.
What shocked me most of all was Finn's acknowledgment of Kurt's crush. I never thought Finn had a clue.
I love both characters, just think they're both mixed up and maturing. Thought it was too over the top for Kurt's dad to go immediately to -- get out. I think there should have been a little more acknowledgment of Finn's feelings about the whole thing.


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