MinnieSummer
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The return trip to PA was actually very interesting. It started out fine but my DM, who usually is asleep in the first 10 minutes of any drive, stayed awake the entire trip -- all 16 hours of it. I like to drive and think and contemplate all the things I want to do but this trip was a talk fest. I understood that she was excited about going home so I just let her chat when she wanted. We had one big snafu on the trip -- I did something soooo stupid, but it was 3:00 in the morning and I was tired and just wanted to get home. Depending on who I talked to my little mistake could have cost me over $1000.00 but thanks to the truckers, who know more about cars than any mechanic, I was able to make the trip without incurring any additional expense. And no I'm not going to tell you what I did because it is just way to unbelievable, impossible according to my husband who I didn't even tell until two days ago.
I was worried about pulling up to the property as we had sold part of it, the first part you see when heading down to the house, and they put a big house on it. I wasn't sure how my DM would feel about that but it's a beautiful house and she thought it looked really nice there so that was OK. However, when she saw her home she started to sob. She really didn't think she would ever see her home again.
All went well that first day. We got everything in, I ran out and bought groceries, then rearranged some furniture. The woman we hired to stay with DM at night showed up and ---
not at all what she had portrayed herself to be. I tried to give her a chance but when I got back to FL and realized I couldn't sleep worrying about this woman staying with my DM I went into gear and found the man who had been staying with my DF prior to his death and begged him to go back (we had let him go because my DM wouldn't let him help her with anything him being a man and all). He agreed and that has worked out wonderfully. In addition to being an emergency room nurse, he is also a great cook, and knows his way around a lawn mower. So he is mowing the lawn (much cheaper than hiring someone else), cooking (no more eating in restaurants every night) and taking great care of my DM.
Overall things are looking up.
I was worried about pulling up to the property as we had sold part of it, the first part you see when heading down to the house, and they put a big house on it. I wasn't sure how my DM would feel about that but it's a beautiful house and she thought it looked really nice there so that was OK. However, when she saw her home she started to sob. She really didn't think she would ever see her home again.
All went well that first day. We got everything in, I ran out and bought groceries, then rearranged some furniture. The woman we hired to stay with DM at night showed up and ---

Overall things are looking up.