OMG, Tig, I am so sorry....and to top all this off, you are having your gallbladder out on Wed...OMG...

are you having the laproscopic (?) surgery for the gb???
And those headaches, YIKES, I have a DS that suffers horrible with them and it pains me when he is in pain.
And DH's job, but Tig, just when you think you have hit rock bottom, things start to look up, yes they really do.
Just to come on the DIS and vent, vent to your friends, is so therapeutic, it really is. Keeping it all bottled up is not good. VENT, RAMBLE, CHAT, TALK, DISCUSS, it is alllll good. And maybe it won't make everything all better, but to just put it out there, helps you to sort through it all.
A friend in need is def a friend indeed as well as GOD working in mysterious ways and I am not the overly religious type but prayer has always helped me!!!
TIG,