SO....last night when I get home from work DH tells me that he left DD skip one of her classes yesterday afternoon. She went to her 3 morning college classes and her 5th period math class, but wanted to skip 6th period Spanish class. All they were doing in that class was having a Fiesta Day, where everyone brings in Mexican food and they have a party. So not a big deal right?
This is "Spirit Week" at the high school so DD and several of her friends meet at Starbucks, go purchase paint and other supplies to decorate their clothing.
I assume that DH will send a note with her today excusing her from class. Nope! Instead they call me this afternoon on the phone. I'm sure they thought they had caught her doing something her parent's didn't know about.
Anyway, the secretary asks if I knew that DD missed class yesterday. I said yes, I knew. Then there is dead silence. So she said, well she only missed 5th period, but not 6th period. To which I said, yes my DH told me she missed one of her classes yesterday, so we are aware of it, I assumed he would write her a note excusing her today, but obviously he didn't. So yes, we were and are aware that she missed a class. This lady obviously wants to know what is going on, so she further grills me. Well do you know why she missed class? I said, I'm not aware of the entire reason but I do know it was something that my DH approved although I didn't discuss it in detail. Finally the ladys says, OH FINE, I guess we have to excuse it then and hangs up!

OK, I know we live in a small town and she probably knows that DD and about 5 of her friends skipped the Spanish class and went to Starbucks and shopping for craft supplies to decorate their pants for Spirit Week. What did she want me to say...Please excuse DD from Spanish class, it was just a boring party she didn't want to attend and was having a craving for a Starbuck's instead?
Seriously, we don't let our kids skip school all the time. But I see no problem with DD missing a class on occasion. She always asks us, it's probably only 2-3 times a year at the most and she does it when she is caught up at school. I mean if you can't have a little break from the daily grind every once in a while, what fun is life? My mother used to let me do the same thing. I mean after all she has a 3.875 GPA, is a 16yo attending college classes, has already passed her WASL (high school test required to graduate), and doesn't really party or get into lots of trouble.
Do you think the whole world could stand to just lighten up a little?
