gee Ali, what kind of doctors are these people..do you float down a swamp to see them....umm, you should have been upset over the cancer..its gone now so what do they want you to do ? go crazy and then they get to put down that you need help for that...
Honestly, I don't think most doctors know what to do with cancer survivors. If you think about it most people that have cancer die from it. It's really only been the last 5-10 years that large numbers of people have started surving cancer. I think as they get more and better treatments and survival rates keep going up, they will get used to dealing with survivors.
Oncologists obviously know how to deal with cancer survivors. But other regular doctors don't. My family doctor kept saying...you should talk to your oncologist about these problems. But my oncologist is a specialist that deals with cancer and blood diseases, not hemmoroids! That makes about as much sense as going to your dentist for a bunion problem!
I have noticed that most dentists & doctors treat me like I have the plague now. Luckily my new doctor has been my bosses's family's doctor for years. I know him very well but never used him because he wasn't in my HMO thru hubby's insurance. Anyway, my new doctor is an Internal Medicine doctor and has had more experience dealing with cancer since he deals with a lot of older people. He also gave me a referral to a good oncologist. I asked him why he picked that particular oncologist and he said "Cuz if I had cancer that's who I would go to". Good enuf for me!
