The Girl`s Thread

[princess.chell]

...i'm in a bit of bind. could i ask for some advice from you guys?

 

[m!ssemmx0]

ask away.

 

[hkrox]

Well, that's sure to put you in an awkward position. I'm sorry.

Yeah for sure. And now everyone thinks that we like each other now just cuz we talk like all the time. And that's making the girl even more mad at me.

i'm rather bored.

Hey. I'm quite bored too. I really wish I could talk to certain people right now and I'm bummed that I can't.

 

[StitchfansJr]

Go ahead Michelle.
I always vent/talk to you about stuff, so go ahead.

 

[iiOwly]

go ahead.

 

[hkrox]

...i'm in a bit of bind. could i ask for some advice from you guys?

For sure. I do all the time. What's going on?

 

[iiOwly]

Yeah for sure. And now everyone thinks that we like each other now just cuz we talk like all the time. And that's making the girl even more mad at me.

Maybe if you talk to the girl and tell her whats going on, she might understand.

 

[hkrox]

Maybe if you talk to the girl and tell her whats going on, she might understand.

Yeah I've tried that. When we've done that it hasn't turned out good. We usually end up like almost yelling at each other so...not sure what else I can do.

 

[iiOwly]

Yeah I've tried that. When we've done that it hasn't turned out good. We usually end up like almost yelling at each other so...not sure what else I can do.

Again, I'm sorry. This is a horrible situation to be put in.

 

[princess.chell]

ask away.

Go ahead Michelle.
I always vent/talk to you about stuff, so go ahead.

and everyone else who responded while I was typing
=)


So I've got this friend; she's basically like my only friend left after some stuff that went down earlier this year. She's basically my best friend, knows nearly everything about me, all my issues and whatnot. But, she keeps emotionally hurting me. We talked Monday night about my situation with my other "friends" and how they were really flaky. Then Tuesday I go to pick her up to go snowboard and she bails when I get to her house. She profusely apologizes that afternoon, I forgive her, and we hang out that night. Then Wednesday night we talk about how I just ended another friendship and then she says that I am the only one she wants to spend NYE with and she'll text me Thursday night when she gets off of work. I get off work Thursday and text her, its like 8:30, she shoulda been off work by now. She doesn't text me back alll night. But there are numerous drunk tweets about how much fun she's having at this party. I get a lovely drunk text from her which I promptly delete. Today, I've gotten 3 texts from her, "I'm sorry about last night" "I know you ignoring me, but I'm sorry" "I'm sorry". I haven't responded to any yet.
Should I keep forgiving her even though she keeps hurting me and bailing? She's legit the only friend I have left and she is awesome, except for when she does this...

 

[hkrox]

Again, I'm sorry. This is a horrible situation to be put in.

Yeah it's hard for sure. And everyone seems to take the other girls side too which is hard. But we'll work things out hopefully. And if we don't then maybe we're just not meant to be that close of friends.
But enough about me. What's going on with you and this guy you like?

 

[iiOwly]

Yeah it's hard for sure. And everyone seems to take the other girls side too which is hard. But we'll work things out hopefully. And if we don't then maybe we're just not meant to be that close of friends.
But enough about me. What's going on with you and this guy you like?

I do hope that things get better for you.

About the guy I like, I think he likes me, too. But I can't be completely sure, because he can be very confusing sometimes. On some days, he'll just come up and randomly hug me (lol), but on some other days he barely talks to me. So idk whats up...

 

[hkrox]

Towards the situation...I just don't wanna quote it cuz that would take up too much space. So I think that you should think about everything she's done to you and all the ways she's hurt you and ask yourself is it worth it. And I'd you do think it's worth it just make sure that she doesn't affect you in a way that changes who you are. Cuz that's the worst thing that can happen to people.

 

[hkrox]

I do hope that things get better for you.

About the guy I like, I think he likes me, too. But I can't be completely sure, because he can be very confusing sometimes. On some days, he'll just come up and randomly hug me (lol), but on some other days he barely talks to me. So idk whats up...

Would you say you guys are close friends?

 

[iiOwly]

Would you say you guys are close friends?

Yeah, BFF's.

 

[hkrox]

If I was in your situation I would just tell him how you feel. If you really are that close he'll either tell you that he feels the same way or if he doesn't than he'll be nice about it. He won't want to do anything to hurt you and if he does than he's doesn't deserve you.

 

[iiOwly]

Okay, thank you That does help a lot.

 

[hkrox]

No prob. Has he showed any signs of liking you?

 

[iiOwly]

The hugging, he talks to me a lot more than he talks to any of our other friends, we hang out at Starbucks...

 

[hkrox]

Those are pretty good signs. Especially the hanging out thing. I'm assuming you guys are in high school right? Cuz that could make a difference.