I understand completely, Stormy.
We (me and DW) have been retired since 2020 and when our (working) kids call to discuss date-related stuff, I admit I'm a little lost.
As I tell the kids, to me and DW, "EVERYDAY IS SATURDAY".
So they have to BE SPECIFIC about days they're coming to visit, blah blah blah. I also put a lot of things on a 12-month calendar to help know 'where' we're supposed to be 'when'. Like our DISMeet later this month.
ED
PS - the kids will call us on the weekend and say stuff like, "what are you going to do tomorrow?" And I tell them I'll wait until I wake up then and figure out which FIRE to put out FIRST. And, if there's no fire

, we MIGHT take a nap after lunch.
PPS - but to stay on topic, when a hurricane (or related storm) comes at us from the Gulf Coast, we hunker down and wait for the power to go out. As it always does. For about 12 hours. We just "don't open the refrigerator".