DMickey,
I agree with Lisa, stop by the FIRM board. Everyone there is so helpful and it's a great motivator.
I have 5 second abs and have only done workout #1 once. Ab work is not easy, especially when you are beginning. Don't worry about what you look like, no one is there to see you! I remember when I would always work out, I would skip the ab part. I hated it, it hurt and I wasn't going to do it. Even back in September when I started Firming, I would skip the ab part mostly. I would try a few, but when they hurt I quit. I stopped FIRMing to go on vacation in Nov and didn't start back up till January. This time I decided to really focus and make myself do the ab work. Unless the set is too hard and it hurts I try to keep good form and do them. They are getting easier, and I can so see them getting more tone. Now that I am getting closer to goal, I can actually see some definition there. I also can see that I may not end up with extra skin when I finish loosing all this fat. I can see my tummy fat shrinking and I really think the toning of the abs is helping. Hopefully someday when the fat all disappears from this area I will have nice abs underneath.
Keep at it, go slow and keep good form. Join us on the FIRM board. You can do it. I know they are not fun, but think of the results. You can't spot reduce your belly, but you can strengthen the muscle underneath. Then one day the work will pay off!
Good luck!