Eeyorecln said:When we went back to visit last year we went to the 13 YO baseball games and one of the players had long hair down his back sticking out of his helmet. Grandma(being old fashioned and not up with the times) asked if they let girls play with the boys now.
I was mortified that the parents might have heard. But what are you gonna do with the older generation, they just don't understand the new fashions and stuff.
Gosh forbid they get an earing.
She would never let that one go. Secretly, I like some of it to come from her than me. That way I'm not the uncool step-mom, I think it but let her give the lecture.
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My DB came home with an earing he was about 15 at the time and for his B'day a couple of weeks later my DS and I gave him a dress, off came the earing and he has never spoken about it again (that was probably about 22 yrs ago).

I was mortified that the parents might have heard. But what are you gonna do with the older generation, they just don't understand the new fashions and stuff.
Gosh forbid they get an earing.
She would never let that one go. Secretly, I like some of it to come from her than me. That way I'm not the uncool step-mom, I think it but let her give the lecture.
Too funny. Grandma gives Jonathan a lecture all the time. Falls on deaf ears..or maybe he just can't hear with all the hair in the way!
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I know what you mean. I thought about the fishing thing...but then decided it may not be the best thing.